The FSM debate has led to many poster saying no one should have children they "can't afford". That contraception is effective and easily available so no excuses.
I have one child who someone arrived despite using what were said to be effective contraception. I had not long returned to work after maternity leave. We could almost pay the mortgage and child care costs, before the arrival of this surprise baby. This unplanned pregnancy was a shock but we were lucky, we managed and all was well. I don't want to cause distress to others if your unplanned pregnancy was more difficult than mine.
I wonder how many of us could say I too am Spartacus (or whatever the female equivalent name is)
To go through chemo therapy or choose not to?
Have any of you got all electric cars? Pros and cons please.