I don't think it's unusual. I myself woukd much rather have my bed to myself and read, have a cup of tea or whatever than get messy...??
I've had a great sex life with my ex and we have 5 children who hsve given us 9 gc and 3 ggc.
I'm 73 and pretty fit for my age, wear nice modern clothes but not mutton dressed as lamb and have an OH whom I met 5 years agoon a dating site. He's 22 years my junior, a divorced professional with 3 children under 12. We don't live together although he regularly asks me to get married and move in with him. He knows the score. I don't want sex but he is happy...more than happy, to 'compromise'.
I am used to doing what I want when I want and, although retired, I do p/t proofreading/editing for a publishing company and I'm a volunteer for SAMS.
I've advised him to look elsewhere and just be friends but 5 years of telling him this haven't made him less interested.
I just can't be bothered and, to be scrupulously honest, if it had been acceptable to have children without marriage or co-habiting, then I would have boarded that train.
As it turned out, my ex worked offshore so I WAS on my own a lot which suited me fine.
So...sex in my book is overrated.
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