When our first DGD was born, DD (who was only 20) rang to say baby was on her way and would I come round-only a few minutes in car. I arrived same time as 2midwives. All went well, I kept out of the way but came in handy for bed changing etc afterwards. SIL was v gracious. 2nd DGD by section.
I was invited again for their 3rd DGC; again in supportive role only. Last DGD arrived during the night. We got a phone call soon after asking if we wanted to go round to meet her?
DD2 loves a few hours away. We only found out after she was born. Didn't even know she was in labour. We were invited up the day after on discharge from hospital. Stayed in nearby hotel. Invited round that evening, they looked grey with fatigue! Next morning they sent for us so they could get some sleep-we were there in a jiffy.
My DD1 was born at home. My Mum and sister were downstairs. I SO wanted them to be with me but midwife, although lovely and competent, was a bit of a battle axe so didn't like to ask (in my own home too!). I've always regretted that-Ho hum. As long as everyone is ok that's all that matters.
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Scottish island ferries debacle. 🏴
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They don't really care do they
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