My daughter can be lovely but also very selfish and difficult. Shes a good mom of 3 lovely kids. Her husband left her 18 months ago having warned her many times that her behavioir was unacceptable.
She's a loving mom but a very difficult person and daughter.
I look after the kids a couple of times a week after school and during the holidays and now her job is changing. Her ex has a new job and can't have the kids in the week as much.
She had told me that she will need me to have the kids more since her job has changed...told not asked.
I have a chronic illness and struggle but want to help. My problem is her lack of respect.
We pay for her gas, electric, car, mobile phone and car insurance since her husband left as she got into terrible financial difficulties. My husband wants to retire but can't see how. We also paid her rent for 9 months and even now we're last on the list for debt, having to constantly remind her when her rent is due as it comes out if our account.
But she's not grateful for any of it and my husband and I are both feeling distressed and upset by her to the point where we feel we don't want to help anymore.
Everytime we try to talk about the way she treats us, it ends up with her storming out and blocking our numbers on her phone. She only unblocks us if she needs us. I feel so depressed all the time . Any advice would be very welcome. Thank you
