Mission accomplished! Just got back and wanted to share. We had a wonderful visit reminiscing about old times.
My dear friend has lost some weight and seems more frail, but she still looks good despite her condition. We ate, we laughed, took a few selfies and talked a lot about world politics, math exams, old flames, family, friends, our alma mater and even our dearly departed pets.
We had particular fun exchanging 'war' stories about one former Mother Superior. If you were ever confronted by a formidable teacher (or nun) who exacted discipline with a threatening yardstick, then you probably knew her too.
The 'goody' bag turned out to be quite a success! I included a lovely box of fine chocolates, some embossed stationery, a generous tube of Almond scented hand lotion and a zippered cosmetic pouch with 2 lipsticks, 3 shades of powdered blush with brush, a mascara wand and a (sample size) flask of spray cologne.
Even if I don't get another chance to see her, I will look back upon how she was today and have no reason to be saddened.