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LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Fri 10-Jan-20 16:27:00

We're really happy to read threads like this and know that the site is hitting the mark with you. But we also know that for all of you who are regular posters, there are many more who, for whatever reason, haven't yet joined in on the discussions and we wondered what could be done to make the site more welcoming to newbies? If you are new (or can remember back to when you were) what barriers do you think users may come across that stop them from joining in the chat? And if you are a lurker (although we prefer to think of you as reader) if you're happy to post just this once to let us know what stops you usually, we'd really appreciate it. Any insight you can give us be most welcome and rewarded with a virtual bottle of wine grin
Thanks
GNHQ

sodapop Sun 19-Jan-20 19:15:38

Gaunt47 and Maggiemaybe The Dead Hand triumvirate it is. Anyone wanting to end a thread just apply to one of us. grin

Marydoll Sun 19-Jan-20 19:19:32

Are you three the new clique? ??

NanKate Sun 19-Jan-20 19:44:34

?

Maggiemaybe Sun 19-Jan-20 21:34:29

I daren’t reply, Marydoll, in case I kill the thread. grin

sodapop Sun 19-Jan-20 21:53:47

Ooh I've never been in a clique before, cross fingers Maggiemaybe it will be ok, grin

Gaunt47 Sun 19-Jan-20 21:55:59

Now isn't this cosy, a cosy clique. Oh dear, is that it? sad

GagaJo Sun 19-Jan-20 22:02:43

Medium user. Not new, but only a few months in. As a newish granny, I joined Gransnet for granny stuff, but have found there isn't much of that around. Mostly just royal stuff and MM bashing. A bit of light racism and right-wing politics.

But despite that, for whatever reason, I keep coming back. Why?

Marydoll Sun 19-Jan-20 23:05:05

I could post, the The Dead Hand triumvirate could ignore what I've posted and talk among themselves, then they truly would be a clique.
I think that's how it works. ? ?
Oh ladies, notoriety at last!!!! ?

I do have to say, Maggiemaybe, I have never forgotten how you defended me, a long time ago when a poster was quite personal and nasty to me, a newbie! I was so naïve then and you were so kind!. Keep on posting!

Maggiemaybe Sun 19-Jan-20 23:30:09

Thank you, Marydoll, you’re very kind. blush

I’d vote for you to join our clique any day.

Gaunt47 Mon 20-Jan-20 06:49:35

Marydoll welcome on board, but we're no longer a triumvirate! Does that make us a quadruplet or something? At this rate it'll be HQ which closes the thread rather than any of our comments grin

Marydoll Mon 20-Jan-20 07:30:02

Thank you, Gaunt47, this is all getting a bit tricky for me! ?.
The problem is that I was recently accused of being part of another clique. Does that give me a foot in every camp? ?

I found, what I thought was a great word for a group of four. Thank goodness I found out in time, that it has very risqué connotations! blush!

I have also derailed GN's this thread with my wittering on , so I'm quietly ?, making a hasty retreat!

sodapop Mon 20-Jan-20 08:31:32

Now I'm intrigued Marydoll I'm all for adding a bit of spice to the proceedings.

Marydoll Mon 20-Jan-20 08:36:14

Sodapop this was way too HOT for a genteel lady like me! ?

SallyB392 Mon 20-Jan-20 09:53:47

Help!!!!!
Please could someone translate some of the abbreviations used in many posts? YABU etc. ( I can't remember them now .....typically).

Many thanks

Marydoll Mon 20-Jan-20 10:06:57

Sally, go to the top of the page, left hand side and click on, ACRONYMS

Gaunt47 Mon 20-Jan-20 11:19:49

Marydoll I've been thinking about 'four' and 'quad' and like Sodapop can't come up with the word you're thinking of. My nice clean mind is obviously a drawback!

Marydoll Mon 20-Jan-20 11:29:56

Sodapop I came across it by accident. I too am an innocent.
It means having a foursome, says she clutching her pearls. blush
I had never heard of it!

Marydoll Mon 20-Jan-20 11:31:20

I meant to say Gaunt, I'm all flustered!!!

sodapop Mon 20-Jan-20 12:18:59

Goodness gracious me, that's way too racy for Gransnet isn't it ?

There could be a lot of variations on that theme HQ will be deleting us if we take this any further. Now I've broken my pearls in the excitement blush

Pantglas2 Mon 20-Jan-20 12:26:33

Have you thought of calling yourselves ‘4 in a bed’ ladies?

Marydoll Mon 20-Jan-20 12:41:55

?

SallyB392 Mon 20-Jan-20 15:24:35

Clique? Is that a club, a friendly one? If so, please can I join I'm feeling very vulnerable at the moment......

timetogo2016 Mon 20-Jan-20 15:28:00

fourormore is 100% right.
Could`t agree more.

Marydoll Mon 20-Jan-20 15:47:21

SallyB392, open to all! Come on in, I'm sure the other Cliquettes won't mind. grin
In fact it means we no longer have to use that risqué word.

Pop into the Good Morning thread tomorrow and introduce yourself.
It's a bit of misnomer, as you can post at any time of the day.

sodapop Mon 20-Jan-20 15:51:53

Yes welcome to the Cliquettes SallyB392 feel like we should be a Gran band now.