P.S. Oh no it's me again! Sorry!
People will quite probably think I have taken a rather serious and "heavy" view of the situation and that it may not warrant anything as bad as that. I sincerely hope it does not! My background has given me the knowledge that I feel I ought to pass on in case it it needed. Some of what I say - like don't get involved in petty arguments but just say a few neutral words, is relevant whatever the situation.
I am aware that this might be a "storm in a tea-cup". But my experience has taught me to give people the full first aid kit in case they need it, if you see what I mean. It's better to have the knowledge and not need to use it than to need help and not know what to do.
Thanks for putting up with me! Best wishes to anyone in this kind of painful situation.
Anger management!!! Help needed.