agree with outside dave.
by paying for the children's food you are infantilising their father. you are letting him continue wasting his money on illegal drugs. that money should be used for the children's food. if he refuses to parent properly he should not have custody of the children. it is not good enough that the children like being with him; that is a necessary but not sufficient condition for child welfare and custody. they would probably like being with someone who fed them sweets all day....
also you say your partner goes shopping, but has emphysema and is disabled enough to need a mobility scooter. is that not very risky. surely a person with emphysema ought to be shielding, away from shops and other people.
i really don't know what to make of your posts.
i am not convinced they are entirely genuine.
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