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phoenix Fri 06-Aug-21 17:14:54

To see that Mawbe had posted a birthday message to me on Wednesday 4th August!

I had quite a few surprises that day!smile When Mr P opened the front door to let Oliver Sprout in (he was rather a soggy moggy, his own fault for for going out in the rain. He does it because he likes being rubbed dry!)

But I digress. Mr P said "I think you'd better come and have a look. So being in an affable sort of mood, I did.

Well, you could have knocked me down with a Tena Lady wrapper!

There was a cluster of balloons with helium numbers 6 &3 attached, a rather small balloon arch (handy if you were expecting a visit from a troop of little people, which I believe is the correct term to use, and a good hostess should always be ready to cater for all types of guest. None arrived though.confused ) and a beautiful plant.

Later a friend arrived with a delicious apple and almond tray bake, complete with candles and sparklers! grin, then another friend with flowers and champagne!

I had lots of cards (more than usual) and Mr P cooked a delicious mealsmile

It really was a fabulous birthday, which was great, because you see it will be my last.

I was diagnosed with terminal cancer back in mid December and despite the best efforts of all staff involved, the prognosis given during my last consultation in July, was that I had about 3 months sad

I won't bore you with details of the various treatments I had, but will reassure you that I'm still pottering about and enjoying what I do.smile

Please don't inundate me with PM's. I would feel that I had to respond to each one,and my time and energy have to be used carefully these days (quite interesting planning ones own funeral though wink ) but I will read any posts on this thread.

With love, and every good wish for a successful gammon at Christmas!

phoenix

xxxxw

JulieNoted Tue 10-Aug-21 09:02:05

I've only just stumbled on this thread. Oh phoenix sad. I really am so sad to read this. You will leave a big hole in the lives of your loved ones and everyone else who knows you - that includes all of us on here (you would know me from previous incarnations by the way - suffice to say that I too live in Devon. That may help you to identify me wink)

I'm so glad your birthday was a blast - you deserved that after bringing so much fun and joy into our lives. Yes, who could forget the Christmas gammon? And the antics of Oliver Sprout et al? Not to mention the toilet seat and Mr P's shopping fails. Such a great story teller, a wonderful way with words, you've always had us in stitches - and laughter is a much needed commodity in these times, so I thank you for that phoenix, and I promise you, you will never be forgotten. You have put your mark on this earth, which is more than many of us can honestly say.

I wish you bucket loads of fun and joy for whatever time remains to you. And so much love xx

Callistemon Tue 10-Aug-21 11:28:54

Lovely post, JulieNoted and I think we can all echo those words.

Charleygirl5 Tue 10-Aug-21 11:51:51

Callistemon I totally agree, that was beautifully expressed by JulieNoted. I do hope the sun shines on Sunday for the garden party.

Hellogirl1 Tue 10-Aug-21 11:57:48

Hear hear!

rubysong Tue 10-Aug-21 23:30:28

Oh Phoenix what a shock! You have lived life to the full and ridden its rollercoaster. Thank you for being such a great part of the GN community. I hope you are able to make lovely memories in the next weeks for Mr P and all your loved ones. I have dipped in and out over the last ten years and always enjoyed your posts. XX

Kalu Thu 12-Aug-21 15:25:22

A truly lovely post JulieNoted❤️

Pittcity Sat 14-Aug-21 19:34:28

I hear you are not too good today Phoenix.
We are all here for you x

Hellogirl1 Sat 14-Aug-21 21:56:58

Love and best wishes Phoenix, I hope you`re well enough for your party tomorrow.

GrannyGravy13 Sat 14-Aug-21 22:12:55

Phoenix thinking of you sweetie ❤️

Mollygo Sat 14-Aug-21 22:14:22

Thinking of you, Phoenix and sending hugs.?

dragonfly46 Sat 14-Aug-21 22:21:02

My thoughts are with you too Phoenix.

Deedaa Sat 14-Aug-21 22:32:26

Hope this is just a blip Phoenix I've got the family round for lunch tomorrow and will have a little drink for you [flowers}

Luckygirl Sat 14-Aug-21 22:52:10

I hope that you will be feeling up to your celebration tomorrow. I will be thinking of you. flowers

Aldom Sat 14-Aug-21 23:37:41

Nite, nite Phoenix Thinking of you and hoping you are well enough to enjoy your party tomorrow.

Spinnaker Sat 14-Aug-21 23:39:44

Kindest thoughts Phoenix and fingers crossed you're able to enjoy your bit of an 'event' tomorrow ❤ flowers

Georgesgran Sat 14-Aug-21 23:57:03

Just ? for you. X

V3ra Sun 15-Aug-21 00:04:04

Awww Phoenix..... thinking of you xx

Doodle Sun 15-Aug-21 00:24:08

phoenix I can’t believe I missed this thread on Friday.
I’ve been hoping you would come back and post soon but of course I was hoping it would be with better news.
You are one of the first posters I tuned into on GN and I want to thank you for all the laughter, fun and humour you have given us over the years.
I’m so sorry to hear that despite the treatment your prognosis is not good. I’m so saddened and shocked by your post.
Typical of you, lovely lady that you are, to present your news with humour and no trace of self pity.
Your lovely tales and stories will long live on in our memories. You have made me laugh so much.
I glad you enjoyed your birthday and hope you continue to post as and when you can.
Take care and much love to you, MrP and Oliver Sprout and Minnie. x

Marydoll Sun 15-Aug-21 00:36:51

What a lovely post, Doodle. ?

nanna8 Sun 15-Aug-21 00:41:52

Phoenix, best wishes to you and I love your name because it is so positive,just like you. ❤️

FarNorth Sun 15-Aug-21 01:09:06

Wishing you a wonderful time at your 'event' Phoenix.
Thank you for all your contributions to Gransnet. ?

Riverwalk Sun 15-Aug-21 06:25:54

I hope you enjoy your special day phoenix.

Lots of love flowers

NotAGran55 Sun 15-Aug-21 06:33:07

Have a wonderful time today Phoenix . Hoping to hear a tale or two! grin

kittylester Sun 15-Aug-21 06:55:19

I think that phoenix party has been cancelled. sad

harrigran Sun 15-Aug-21 07:11:49

Oh that is sad, I was hoping to hear that it was going ahead ?