House proud people

Lucca
Agree

I find "houseproud" women are usually massive bores who are missing the bigger picture - the only time I put in a few hours is if there is any danger of a visitor whose opinion I care about

Unlike those of us who are boring but live our lives to suit ourselves, not other people ?

Such nonsense to make judgements about people based on how much housework they say they do.

If we draw a line between 'Really Slutty' and 'Germophobe' we are all at different places on that line at different points in our lives depending on our jobs, families, houses, incomes, and general circumstances. I would like to think I am more towards the 'Germophobe' these days but when I had a career and young children to think of I was probably closer to the other end. Although I would think being right at either end is unhealthy.

Jaibee007

Life is short, and there are a million more interesting things to do than housework - as I live alone I only apply basic hygiene to the kitchen and bathroom, rarely hoover and am good at ignoring piles of clothes etc and just going out - I find "houseproud" women are usually massive bores who are missing the bigger picture - the only time I put in a few hours is if there is any danger of a visitor whose opinion I care about ?

I've just been for coffee to someone's house and come home slightly down in the dumps as mine needs a good clean and tidy up (usually a Monday job).
The house was immaculate, more modern than ours, the garden was beautiful and they do it all themselves.
They seemed to have a great social life (pre-Covid), a happy family life and good holidays, belong to local clubs and societies where they take an active part. They'll be getting back into the swing of all this as long as we're allowed.
He's 88 and she's 86!

Oh, and they were really interesting and good company too ?

Callistemon

Oh, and they were really interesting and good company too ?

Perhaps we just have to accept that there are some people blessed with colossal amounts of energy and as a result, they do everything better than us.

Or, conversely, some people live in sh*tholes and don't care, and therefore they are better than us?
Honestly, none of it matters.
Domestic duties are not worth the fuss, one way or the other. (And I never see men having these conversations)

varian

Callistemon

Oh, and they were really interesting and good company too ?

Perhaps we just have to accept that there are some people blessed with colossal amounts of energy and as a result, they do everything better than us.

Probably, varian although they said they haven't been able to go dancing three times a week since Covid so perhaps they have energy to spare!

My friend/ neighbour wakes at 5a.m and all housework is completed by 7a.m., when I am just stirring. She is so organised . I wish I was.

Two hours housework? Every day? Must have a huge house with lots of people,living in it.

I cleaned downstairs yesterday but the hall is full of leaves again - I failed to vacuum the tree outside.

I have a cleaner, but I am quite tidy anyway. She comes for 3 hours a week and does the jobs I never get round to, like dusting skirting boards, plus any jobs I specify, like cleaning the oven. Mind you, I live alone in a small house, so nothing every gets really out of control.

It frees me up to do the things that make life worthwhile...

Callistemon

I cleaned downstairs yesterday but the hall is full of leaves again - I failed to vacuum the tree outside.

I know that feeling Callistemon ☹️

We have a large oak tree about 30 feet from our front door and these days we always seem to have a collection of leaves in the porch. It won't be long before the acorns start dropping and there will be a constant tap-tap-tap as they hit the drive and bang-bang-bang as they hit the car.

Everyone's leaves, as well as our own, seem to blow towards our front door or, for a change, in front of the garage door Amberone!!
Autumn's not here yet ???

Callistemon

I cleaned downstairs yesterday but the hall is full of leaves again - I failed to vacuum the tree outside.

I have similar earlier in the year - endless ‘bits’ * blown or trodden in, from the mature beech tree very close to the house, when the new leaves are appearing.
*presumably the little brown sheaths of the leaf buds.

At the moment the back lawn is littered with beech mast shells - squirrels are very busy scoffing them, aided by local parakeets. But at least they don’t get blown or trodden in.

Yes, we get the sheaths of the new buds, then this tree has white flowers which drop off, then the leaves. Lots of twigs get blown off in high winds although we had it checked and two branches taken off by a tree surgeon.

The French have a word for it (or rather several) Chacun a son gout - each to his taste.

Having said that, we are back in our house in France after a 14 month gap. Currently I am a domestic goddess. One room is being thoroughly turned out every day, as everything is damp, after a year without heating, beds and bedding need airing and washing, there are dead flies everywhere and we have had a mouse, only one I think, but his/her little droppings can be found everywhere plus nibbled loo paper, a nibbled pillow case and nibbled nuts in one bed and more nibbled nuts under the kitchen scales.

Must go, today is scour the kitchen day!

I agree with Germanshepherdsmum. I wonder how many people say on their deathbeds that they wished they had done more dusting. I won't for sure.

Years ago a friend used to tell me she loved coming to my house, because it was homely, I translated that to cluttered and untidy - nothings changed, It's impossible for me to be tidy - I have tried and failed!! It's the way I am, love me or leave me!!