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eddiecat78 Mon 11-Sep-23 06:48:24

Whilst reading a library book late last night I found a hand written note which says
"Dear you
I hope you know you are capable, and brave, and significant, even when you feel like you are not
With love
A friend."
Whilst appreciating it was probably well intentioned I actually found it rather creepy - especially seeing it signed"with love from a friend".
My dilemma is what to do with it.
Leave it in the book for the next borrower or get rid of it?

MandL Mon 11-Sep-23 13:35:18

I work in a library, and I remove anything that is in a book before putting it out on the shelves again. My view is people come in to borrow a book, if they want quotes etc, they’ll find them themselves.
It’s true about banana skins (and used cotton buds etc!)

Kate1949 Mon 11-Sep-23 14:41:03

People do odd things. A lot of our neighbours including us receive letters through the post occasionally addressed to 'The householders'. These letters are usually two pages long, are handwritten by someone who gives her name and sets out her view of the state of the world and explains how God will save us. I'm not sure why anyone would do this. The stamps must cost her a fortune.

dogsmother Mon 11-Sep-23 14:50:22

Oh yes a £10 and a message to treat yourself would be much more appreciated by me !

DamaskRose Mon 11-Sep-23 15:08:00

As an ex-librarian I’d say the library staff would be too busy to track down note leavers - what would they say anyway? The strangest thing we had was a slice of bacon!

Bella23 Mon 11-Sep-23 15:32:57

Joseann

Now I am cross. angry
If people are leaving fried eggs, old banana skins and goodness knows what else in library books, why did I fess up to a little chew of one page by my puppy and give the library £16.99 when I returned the book?

It's because you have a social conscience Joseann.
Some people just don't care,they also tear pages out of books and return them or you find holes in the ones at the hairdressers in those magazines that cost a bomb.
One of my DD's dropped her school reading book in the bath and had to confess to me. We dried it out and I went and explained, we were let off buying a new one because we had confessed.

Calendargirl Mon 11-Sep-23 18:58:27

Not a church sign, but a poster on a fence that DH and I saw once.

‘Jesus Is Coming’.

Underneath someone had added ‘Look Busy!’

Billybob4491 Mon 11-Sep-23 19:01:59

I borrowed a library book once to find a cooked rasher of bacon had been left as a bookmark.

grandtanteJE65 Tue 12-Sep-23 14:31:54

eddicat - you found the note creepy, so the obvious thing to do was to destroy it, and think no more about it.

That way it can't worry anyone else.

Baggs Tue 12-Sep-23 15:48:08

Calendargirl

Not a church sign, but a poster on a fence that DH and I saw once.

‘Jesus Is Coming’.

Underneath someone had added ‘Look Busy!’

😂😂😂

This reminded me of a time in the early seventies when my parents and we five kids were camping in a field in Scotland. It was a desiganted camping site. Facilities were a couple of toilets and a tap outside the toilet block for filling one's water containers.

Inside, pasted on the door of the toilets, was a notice saying ball games and other noisy games on Sundays were not allowed. (It was Wee Free territory). Someone had written underneath: "Because God doesn't like noise".

HeavenLeigh Tue 12-Sep-23 19:39:31

I don’t find it creepy at all, nor would I think it was personal, I’d give the book back with it still inside someone could welcome it

pinkprincess Tue 12-Sep-23 21:49:00

A long time ago I can remember borrowing a library book and finding inside a photo of my niece and nephew.They were young children then but grown up now.
I rang my brother to tell him and he and his wife were overjoyed to get it back.My sister-in-law had borrowed the book just before me and had used the photo as a bookmark, then forgot to remove it when returning the book!

Hetty58 Tue 12-Sep-23 22:00:25

When I first left school, I worked as a library assistant. You'd be amazed at what we found in books. People would use anything as a bookmark - even a slice of bacon!

Hetty58 Tue 12-Sep-23 22:07:39

DamaskRose (just read the replies) - snap! Did you ever find a squashed piece of toast?

Hetty58 Tue 12-Sep-23 22:11:30

Kate1949, I once got a letter like that - and found it quite creepy, as I'm not on the electoral roll, how would they know my name and address? Maybe a certain religion encourages it?

Maggiemaybe Tue 12-Sep-23 22:31:10

We received something similar in lockdown. Handwritten, with a personal signature, and sent through the post, but addressed to The Householder. I can’t remember whether on the letter itself or on the envelope, it did state somewhere that it came from our local Kingdom Hall.

Chardy Wed 13-Sep-23 09:04:04

BlueBelle

I think it’s just an affirmation, a little note of encouragement in life, in the same way that people leave little tokens of friendship dotted around to find and painted pebbles and books.
Why on earth would it freak anyone it’s meant to be a little kind gesture not a personal threat !!!
Most people are thrilled when they find them 😊

It reminded me of the lovely message pebbles too.

Foxygloves Wed 13-Sep-23 09:07:33

Maggiemaybe

We received something similar in lockdown. Handwritten, with a personal signature, and sent through the post, but addressed to The Householder. I can’t remember whether on the letter itself or on the envelope, it did state somewhere that it came from our local Kingdom Hall.

I get these every so often. As they go straight into the bin they are at least less intrusive than two Jehovah’s Witnesses standing on my doorstep.
Although how they can think anybody believes their message is personal is beyond me.