Sometimes, compassion needs to be taken into account.
So, last week I did make a visit to long-time friend. Sadly, she is very disabled with multiple conditions and has carers coming in two or three times a day.
However, her husband of 54 yrs - who was her main carer sadly caught this virus last March (When he was in hospital), came home, before it was realised, infected his wife - who survived - with no after effects, but died himself. The day I visited was six months to the day of his death............
Yes, she has children, gr.children, g.g.children reasonably nearby - but is finding life very, very difficult. So, I had been staying with my daughter and took an hour or so for this visit. I washed my hands as I entered the house, and upon leaving, did not have anything to eat or drink there - did not rbreak any rules BUT could be said that as I was staying for a few days with my daughter and g.daughter, and then visiting this woman people like ilte and Growstuff would say I was acting selfishly and irresponsibly. I do not think so, my visit helped her on particlarly difficult day.
I also had a visit (in my daughters home) of my SiL, who is suffering from clinical depression, largely caused by the death of her eldest= child last April (aged 51 yrs old) when his chemo was abruptly stopped. She has kept telling people that it is me she wants to see and have a chat with, but we live too far away from each other for that to have been possible. She spent the day with me - we talked and talked, she mainly about her son (I can so well remember that need), when she saw her daughter the following day - it was noted how much better she appeared.
Yes, this meant that over five days, I did mix with several different households - with the exception of my daughter where I was staying, all elderly people. Was I irresponsible - well, I do not feel that I was.
Humans are social creatures......we need company and denial of this can be extremely harmful.