Broken hearted at estrangement

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What about smug adult children making someone needing help feel worthless. Is there any hope for them?
Nexus, there is no excuse for what your brother has done he needs reporting. What if he does it to another child? He should be drummed out of social work, children come first. Your mother should not try to sort it, she can’t.
To say that all the children who grow up to be adults with mental health problems is not true.

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I am not an orphan.

I have parents I choose not to have a relationship with.

It is a huge difference.

Thinking of you and all others in this horrible tragic situation.

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Orphans - their parents are not in this world - alive.

Who would like to reply on their enemy?

On people who makes their situation worse instead of helping?

Rely, not reply

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welbeck

Jodapo
That is victim blaming and not on.
Are you saying every son daughter that goes wrong it is the fault of the parents?
Where is their own responsibility?
And why do you blame only the mother.
What about father.
Your post sounds misogynistic.

It looks like I missed what hapened here. Thankyou ladies for handing it in my absence

I do dislike misogyny though, it is so boring!

Wellbeck, i agree with what you say.
Genuinely sorry for those children who had cruel parents, who were abused in any way, they need to distance, the question, why me, when all they did was be born to such people who should love and protect, must take a lot of guts and determination to make a good life without that foundation. That's why its sad that insecurity and hurt never seems to go for some unwanted and battered children, so they never really are healed. All parents are not like that and yes we make mistakes as everyone on the planet does, but our children come first and to lose them is hard. Unless you have held your baby in your arms and felt the love that comes with them you can’t understand, as you have witnessed the worst of parents.

Nexus. Good your mother has you.

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