So, I've known my DIL since she was 15, she's lived with us too, we've always got on brilliantly together, shopping, lunching, pubbing lol, we always got our hair done together, we got tattoos together. I'm just giving you some background really, and me and my son were her birthing partners. After the baby was born, for weeks and weeks, probably up till about 4-5 months old, if I wanted to see gs I had to visit her mum's, awkward af, but I just got on with it, once a week, popping up, it was like a supervised visit, with her mum and sisters watching me out of the corner of their eyes. I asked my son why the baby couldn't come to me, he said she wouldn't let the baby go to anyone's house, not just mine. OK. A couple of months passed, I was close to giving up, but my son arranged for me to collect the baby once a week for an afternoon, every week, brilliant, I collect him from her mum's (they live with her) ..every week I ask does she need anything, clothes, milk, and always return him with wot ever she's asked for. It's still very awkward going to her mum's. Her dad doesn't speak to me or my youngest son, who is only 8, wen we visit. Last week, he opened the door to my youngest, blanked him, just left the door open and walked away, while I struggled to bump the pram up the steep steps of their house, still, I just get on with it so I can see my gs. Last week DIL told me she still wasn't happy with me taking him once a week! I'm at my wits end, not happy with what? Giving you a break? Getting you anything you need for him? Always coming bk with a gift for him? I feel like giving up, I can actually feel hostility from her, and a lack of eye contact..can someone please please please tell me what the hell is going on because I haven't got a clue. My partner says I should give her what she wants, and stop taking the baby, let her cope 7 days a week with no break. She constantly complains that her own mum won't help her, won't even watch the baby while she takes a shower, her mum is a 'he's your baby not mine' grandparent, I just need advice, thank you if you've managed to read advice l of this.
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