Lots of us having our problems with family at the moment, keepingquiet so we can understand how you feel. It's awful not being able to be there as much as you would like and worrying that something is wrong. And of course the temptation to want to fix things is ever present. I think I would agree that your son seems to be using you to vent his feelings and this is a good thing - it means he has an outlet that won't cause more trouble at home. So from that point of view you are being a great help to him. Try too to do something to take your mind off the troubles. I love watching the TV - Spooks and Bridgerton are my two favourite shows at the moment so I can recommend them as a distraction. As the weather gets better you could go out more, with or without the baby.
Gransnet is also a great place to spend time. Try the more light-hearted threads. Some of the others can get a bit heavy at times.
I hope you can stop worrying and enjoy the time you spend with your granddaughter.
