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Soops cosy kitchen for kind peoples and precious pets !

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NanaandGrampy Tue 14-Feb-17 12:13:03

All ready for business...pull up a chair smile

soop Fri 17-Feb-17 18:04:18

Gulp! I'm running awfully late today. Stuff to tell you. However, a friend from Andover has just arrived and I shall be unable to catch up with the Kitcheners until tomorrow. I apologise.

Maw I have skimmed through a few of the catalogue of messages and understand that your husband is going through a rough patch right now. I'm so sorry.

The photo of Nana with her granddaughter is testament to the close family resemblance. Lovely!

I cannot stay. I need to socialise. I promise to return tomorrow to carefully read through all messages. smile moon

cornergran Fri 17-Feb-17 18:05:29

Pleased you found us again retrolady, the kitchen is a bit hidden now. Mince pies are not just for Christmas! Love the news n&g, your friend deserves to be thought of as a hero, wishing her the happiest of futures. Really happy photo, too, lovely to see.

Goodness, mawb, it never rains and all that. Your leg is a positive anyway. Hoping that by now the passport is safely back along with a door key. I imagine it will be tense for a while, all forgotten once they get on the plane. Also hoping things have settled with your husband, ongoing health issues are incredibly draining.

Good news for you and your husband nonna, our croci are gradually winning their battle with the clay, could make bricks in our back garden. Lifts the spirits to see them.

We have a five minute silence rule in our home galen, it goes like this, if you want your next meal I need a five minute silence break - or there is no food. Works like a charm. Should I be ashamed to admit it? grin.

Sorry, greyduster, but I smiled at your car incident, trying to get used to our new arrival I am constantly going forwards instead of reversing - reverse gear in in the wrong place!

lona in my view predictive text is the work of the devil. I'm forever cursing it. If I could turn it off I would. Anyone know if you can on an iPad?

Wishing you all the best of weekends.

cornergran Fri 17-Feb-17 18:06:57

Wondered where you were soop, pleased you were missing for the best of reasons. Have fun smile.

MawBroon Fri 17-Feb-17 18:52:22

I think I can breathe again (for a bit). Hasn'tbit been a lovely (nearly) Sornf day? And still nearly light at 5.30, beautiful sunset too, ply not ipmto Kintyre's standards.
They have a new passport! SIL bombed over to Newport (2 hours) where he managed to get an appointment but the pictures of DGS he had taken with him weren't deemed good enough so DD (still locked out of the house) collected the children from school/nursery and got a taxi over to Newport so that they could take new pics. It was still in the balance at 4.30 this afternoon but they got it before the office closed at 5.
I can't take this sort of excitement!
DH has had his batteries recharged but has gone off for an early night as he has a lot of sleep to catch up on. I hope everybody has had a lovely day and that you all have a pleasant weekend too.
Normal service will now be resumed as soon as possible.

MawBroon Fri 17-Feb-17 18:53:28

"sornf"? = Spring obviously!!

Tizliz Fri 17-Feb-17 19:07:24

cornergran look in settings, general and there is a toggle switch. Nearly burnt the sauages better pay attention

Greyduster Fri 17-Feb-17 20:10:27

Maw Good to know everything is (hopefully) back on track with you. If I had a day with that kind of stress I'd have to lie down for a week!

corner DH said this morning that I have driven this car more and further in the three weeks we've had it than I did the previous one in a year. I don't think he likes being a passenger, though, (especially when I frighten the living daylights out of him!).

DS is here tommorrow for lunch and then football, so I am looking forward to that. Haven't seen him for a while.

Lona Fri 17-Feb-17 20:43:08

kitty I'm fine now, thank you.
A wine is calling me now having got dgd to bed. She is going away with her daddy tomorrow for a few days, so is full of excitement. We've had such fun since I collected her from school, she thinks I'm a total nutter but I don't care grin
soop Enjoy your socialising xx

Maw Feet up now and a wee dram!

Crafting Fri 17-Feb-17 21:40:04

My goodness. There's such a lot going on in the kitchen, if you can't get in for a day or so there is so much to catch up on.

kitty a nasty burn is no laughing matter. Hope you are ok. (When I type kitty on my I pad I get this ?. Cute isn't it)

maw sorry about missing out on being with Flynn. Hope your DH is feeling better now he has had his transfusion. Oh those passport panics! Glad they were able to get it sorted.

jud lovely pic of georgie glad she's on the mend (she is a she isn't she confused)

N&G what a pretty DGD. Nice news about your friend too. Sounds as though she has found a really nice chap.

Time to sit down with your feet up Galen. DGC are lovely but tiring.

Lona my DGC think I'm mad too but we have lots of fun together grin

Hello soop. Life is busy for you too it seems.

Right I'm off for a sit down to nurse my bruises. I bent down to pick up something off the floor yesterday, stretched too far and overbalanced. Banged my knee and elbow on the floor, cut my arm on the edge of the worktop and banged my head on the wall blush all ok really - well my head is fine - where there's no sense there's no feeling!! grin

cornergran Fri 17-Feb-17 22:24:27

tizliz you may just have saved my sanity. Why couldn't I see that?

Phew, mawb, normal service resumed smile.

Ouch crafting, try arnica on those bruises. Take care.

callgirl1 Fri 17-Feb-17 22:42:18

MawB, I`m pleased that your husband is back on an even keel, hopefully for a while, also that passport panic is over. We had a similar panic last year, just before going on our cruise, but we had a few days to get it sorted. It was their fault, they`d put mine and hubby`s dates of birth the wrong way around.
Soop, hope you`re enjoying your company, they`ve come a long way.
Kitty, how`s your burn?
Crafting, how`s the head?
Found out this morning, they`re putting the scaffolding up next Friday, ready to start on the roof on the Monday, no more leaks after that.

Nelliemoser Fri 17-Feb-17 23:23:07

I have just decided it is time for bed. I spent a lot of the day gardening tidying things up. I put 125lts of compost on one flower bed, a few digs at a time until I could get the remainder of the bag into the wheelbarrow. The soil there is quite awful. I am in need of a good sleep now.

Have a peaceful night. moon

Greyduster Sat 18-Feb-17 11:02:06

Well, it's quiet in the kitchen this morning. Thought I'd look round the door while I'm waiting for DS to come for lunch and football with his dad. Roast chicken today, though I don't feel very much like eating it, and it's my favourite too. A quiet afternoon for me. I may do some drawing. When we were at Chatsworth the other day, there was an exhibition of Derbyshire artists and makers on there. One picture particularly caught my eye from across the room and I thought it was an oil painting until I got up close to it and saw that it was made up of layer upon layer of tiny pieces of magazine cuttings. It was the most amazing thing I've seen in a long time. I don't know how you would plan a picture like that let alone put it together to make something beautiful. It has been haunting me and I just wanted to tell someone about it ?.

MawBroon Sat 18-Feb-17 12:25:22

I was exhausted yesterday - mostly on everybody else's behalf.
DH was feeling fine this mornings GN but has come over dizzy so no longer feels up to coming to the streamed "Amadeus" from the National at a little art house cinema in Northampton (part of the Derngate complex). So I am going to have to go on my own sad if anybody lives near enough to be in Northampton by 2-2.30 please pm me and just turn up. I have emailed round friends but of course it is short notice and nobody seems interested. (miserable bunch)

MawBroon Sat 18-Feb-17 12:26:05

Ignore the "GN" iPad!

soop Sat 18-Feb-17 13:10:34

Boy O boy! You lot are always on the go and it appears that I'm forever playing catch up. I think, and I'm totally unbiased, that you are the most marvellous Granspals in the whole wide world. grin

The amount of worries shared during the time we opened the latest kitchen is testament to your kindness. You all deserve a huge (((hug))).

Maw the testing time that you've endured since I last read your post, almost me feel totally wiped out/ exhausted. You are an amazing lady. I'm relieved that the chaos within your family was dealt with, and all seems well.

Greyduster You've been inspired. I wouldn't know how to approach such a work of art. It will be challenging. Enjoy! My latest watercolour has tested me to the limits of my endurance. Five rejects. Hours spent with hope in my heart and a lump in my throat. I believe that I may be on the right track. I've no formal training. I'm teaching myself as I go along. Patience is a virtue. I've plenty of that.

N&G I really enjoy your posts. You have a way with words.
I also wish your dear friend and her Valentine on-going good fortune.

Nelliem That's a great deal of compost. I wish that I had a fraction of your energy.

nonna Good news for your husband. We have a friend living nearby who is going through the same treatment. Waiting for test results, can be very taxing.

Crafting Your tumble sounds painful. Scrapes and bruises are one thing...hitting your head could have been serious. I was having an early morning wee...as you do...and I was only half awake. I was leaning forward with my eyes closed. When I straightened up I felt dizzy and stumbled towards the bathroom door. It was one of those moments when I could have done myself a real mischief. Having had both hips replaced, falling awkwardly isn't recommended. hmm

We were talking to a friend in Campbeltown yesterday. We mentioned the wedding in Amsterdam and whether or not we should fly from Campbeltown to Glasgow Airport, (less than an hour's flight) or take the early morning bus (a four hour journey). She suggested that we call in at the airport on our way home. So, we did. The building, the size of a three bedroom bungalow, was in darkness. There was a telephone on the outside wall with a number to call for info'. A recorded voice informed us that the information desk would re-open at 3.30. There was no point in driving home in order to return within minutes, so we sat in the car, in an empty car park in the middle of nowhere for an hour and a half. At the appointed time a car drew up beside us. A lady waved and walked towards the building. We then had her undivided attention for at least 30 mins. There is no guarantee that the flight will operate on any given day. Mist, adverse wind conditions, poorly pilot...and the plane won't fly. Apparently, in such circumstances alternative arrangements are laid on to get people to where they want to be. Only thing is, we would then be relying on a taxi taking us to Glasgow, by which time, we would miss the on-going flight. Oh the joy of modern day travel on the West Coast of Scotland! So, the bus it will be going. Fly back to Campbeltown on the return trip. It's possibly quicker to travel to Australia. Except that's not where we wish to go. hmm

soop Sat 18-Feb-17 13:17:05

Maw I've just read your latest message. I was born in Northampton. I regularly visited the Rep theatre which was situated in a street opposite the Guildhall. I understand that the Derngate Centre is hugely popular. It was built long after I left Northampton. Derngate was the main bus station. It was always a dreary, fume-filled location. Not a very attractive place to queue for the United Counties buses.

soop Sat 18-Feb-17 13:18:39

Wish me luck...I'm about to open the so-called art studio. wink

soop Sat 18-Feb-17 17:12:00

MacSporran and I have been submitting a favourite recipe to the website that is compiling the book for our granddaughter's wedding gift. I wouldn't mind betting that the average time spent on such on an exercise is in the region of 30 minutes. Wrong! The Kintyre Two have been slaving over the layout and adding suitable photos for almost the entire afternoon. Reason for the buggeration is that we managed to lose our way (don't ask) on at least three attempts. That moment when one presses the 'submit' button did quite the opposite. What were we doing wrong? I haven't a clue. Thing is we managed to lose the recipe on every occasion. Which meant that we had to start from scratch.

Hey ho! As bags would sigh. We styed with it and, lo and behold, we have been successful. At last...wink

Maw I'm sorry that I couldn't get to the Derngate Centre in time. Please tell us all about it. I hope that you enjoyed the experience.

I'm hoping that our Georgie is continuing to make progress.

Right now, I'm away to take a long, hard, critical look at that painting of mine...should you hear a loud wailing coming from hereabouts, it will be me tearing my hair out by the handful. Only joking. Sort of. grin

cornergran Sat 18-Feb-17 18:05:18

Oh dear, soop, wish I could help with the upload buggerarion but if it were me it would take all day. hmm.

Finally found some snowdrops. Been to the National Trust Lacock Abbey in Wiltshire today and there they were. Lifted the spirits which need lifting as the germs are back with a vengeance. For goodness sake, I've had enough now and have given them a stern talking to. Eviction notice follows.

Sympathy to all poorly people.

Lona Sat 18-Feb-17 18:39:19

Blimey corner the bugs are certainly very fond of you! Maybe you're doing too much too soon! (Finger wagging emoticon!)
flowers

kittylester Sat 18-Feb-17 19:20:52

I'm pigged off as I've got the bugs again too and I've been taking zinc since flipping christmas.

Bellanonna Sat 18-Feb-17 20:34:40

Corner, what a lovely display of snowdrops at Lacock Abbey. Hope your good health is restored soon. Same to you Kitty. This happened to me last year time after time (sorry!) but think I just got really run down. The cough is the worst part and I do sympathise. I'm being paranoid this year - hand gel, running a mile from sneezes, and so on. It's unrelaxing but I don't want that back again, plus DH has a compromised immune system so I have to protect him too. Roll on spring. Those snowdrops set the scene for warmer times to come. I'm loving the longer evenings too.
Maw, hope you loved Amadeus. Even if you were on your own. Sorry Mr MB had to miss it.

MawBroon Sat 18-Feb-17 21:48:07

Sorry to hear that some of you kitcheners are poorly again. It is such a buggeration especially when you have so many other things to do and are feeling wretched.flowers
DH was not as chipper as he first felt when he woke up and a massive dizzy spell kept him at home this afternoon. Sadly nobody was able to use my spare ticket for the streamed NT production of Amadeus, but I am never unhappy to do things on my own and it was out of this world. I had seen the film of years ago but the play is much, much better and of course the music just lifts you to heaven! The actor who played Salieri (Lucian Msamati) was very powerful. I hadn't heard of any of the cast, but they were magnificent. Sorry to gush on. Stopped now.
It is a lovely very little cinema sort of tacked on to the Derngate end of the complex. Lovely generous comfy seats with a wide arm rest for your glass of wine or cup (and saucer) of coffee, loads of legroom, no nasty loud ads, no giant tubs of popcorn and lots of nice people of our sort of age!! Met two of our book group and chatted to another friendly couple who had moved to near Northampton from Warwickshire to be near their daughter. A nice wine in the interval made if perfect and only a 30 minute drive home. Must do this more often!!

cornergran Sat 18-Feb-17 21:57:06

Thank you for cheering me up bellanonna grin. I am seriously fed up with it now. It will go one day, it has to. Mr C can cough with more volume, I keep it going longer. Not that we are competitive you understand. hmm.

Sorry you have this boomerang bug kitty, isn't it foul? Drowning mine with a couple of glasses of wine , off to bed now and dont plan to get up early in the morning. See what some rest can do

Seriously thinking of seeing the GP if it's still with me mid week, but is that just wimpish? This arrived the first week in December, what do you all think?

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