My poor DD and her OH are at their wits' end - 18 month old boy has never slept and he just screams the place down for hours if he doesn't get attention when he wakes at night. They really are doing all the right things: peaceful bedtime routine, putting him back down when he wakes with no interaction.
The basic problem is that he uses my DD's boobs (or anyone else's he can get his hands on - including mine!) as a comforter and will not be weaned on to anything else however hard they try. He really is a beefy chap with a bellow like a bull so it is impossible to ignore him unless you put him to bed next door!
He wakes up his 4 year old brother who is now having disturbed nights too!
Poor DD had serious ante-natal depression so did not sleep throughout her pregnancy - I leave you to do the maths on how long it is since she had a proper night's sleep!
I have sent off for two things for her:a Ewan the sheep which goes in the cot and glows and produced white noise; some Serenite Junior (herbal sleeping drops for little ones), which costs an arm and several legs!!!
Does anyone have experience of either of these? - or any other ideas?
Thanks