Galaxy
Its just impossoble for some people to acknowledge male violence. Its perfectly understable but not helpful. A man raped a woman. Thats what happened. No need for change in terminology and no need to further abuse a victim by forcing her to pretend that she was raped by a woman.
Any discussion that includes the words 'women, regardless of their genitalia' has entered the realm of the surreal.
I refuse to get involved in any sort of discussion of what sort of non-consensual violation is 'lesser' than another (!!), but will post out that only a rape with a penis can result in pregnancy and/or transmission of HIV or other STIs. For that reason, if for no other, it is a different and separate offence from that of penetration with an object, and it can only be committed by a man.
Also, calling assault by women 'rape' would be yet another way to manipulate statistics to mask ways in which women's lives are made worse by a patriarchal society. This would clearly suit the agenda of some, but nobody who has women's interests at heart would countenance such a travesty.