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Katie59 Fri 18-Mar-22 09:01:04

Unbelievable a woman raped in hospital, police told not possible as all nurses on duty were female.

web.archive.org/web/20220317203204/https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2022/03/17/hospital-told-police-patient-not-raped-alleged-attacker-transgender/

GagaJo Fri 18-Mar-22 13:19:26

GrannyGravy13

I am fed up to the back teeth of having transphobia thrown in women’s faces whenever they ask for women only places for their safety

It is normally a sign of no valid points to be made

That is your opinion and you of course have a right to express it.

I see it conversely. In order to protect women, we need to expand our current understanding and laws, in order to take into account a changing society. This is, after all, how societies progress.

Just repeating the same old same old doesn't work and neither do thinly veiled insults.

I think the Google definition of rape makes more sense BlueBelle. Thank you for posting it.

GillT57 Fri 18-Mar-22 13:20:04

I agree GG13, the accusations of transphobia are tiresome, as are the arguments about what constitutes rape.

maddyone Fri 18-Mar-22 13:20:53

Women only safe spaces are a necessity. Trans women are not and never can be women. They are trans women, which is different.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 18-Mar-22 13:23:51

maddyone

Women only safe spaces are a necessity. Trans women are not and never can be women. They are trans women, which is different.

Totally agree, but by stating that a trans woman cannot ever be a woman we are immediately called out as being transphobic when all we are doing is stating a biological physiological fact.

maddyone Fri 18-Mar-22 13:24:07

Incidentally it isn’t an opinion that trans women are not women, it’s a fact. I don’t have a problem with trans women unless they’re in women’s safe spaces without normal women being asked for permission, but let’s not pretend that trans women are actually women, they’re not! They cannot change their chromosomes whatever else they do.

GillT57 Fri 18-Mar-22 13:24:10

In order to protect women, we need to expand our current understanding and laws, in order to take into account a changing society. This is, after all, how societies progress

So, how do you think it went for the rape victim, the understanding was extended to her rapist, the laws were extended to her rapist, but neither understanding or laws were extended to her.

Rosie51 Fri 18-Mar-22 13:25:41

GagaJo how exactly will widening the definition of rape, a unique crime, increase the prosecution rate? Sexual assault occasioned by object is a different, equally horrendous crime. It doesn't need to be put in the rape category. Let's keep that as a strictly male crime, since it will always be committed by someone with a penis.

maddyone Fri 18-Mar-22 13:26:20

Yes I agree and understand that GG and it is something of a problem isn’t it? Because this is where it leads to, normal women being attacked. I accept that the vast majority of trans women don’t attack anyone, but that’s not the point really.

maddyone Fri 18-Mar-22 13:29:20

GillT57

^In order to protect women, we need to expand our current understanding and laws, in order to take into account a changing society. This is, after all, how societies progress^

So, how do you think it went for the rape victim, the understanding was extended to her rapist, the laws were extended to her rapist, but neither understanding or laws were extended to her.

Yes Gill this is the problem isn’t it!

GrannyGravy13 Fri 18-Mar-22 13:31:39

Unfortunately GillT57 your last paragraph sums up this sorry situation very succinctly.

maddyone Fri 18-Mar-22 13:41:30

It seems strange to me. We’re all totally into and supportive of women’s rights until
it comes to trans rights. They appear to trump the rights of normal women for some reason.

Craicon Fri 18-Mar-22 13:48:06

GagaJo

MissAdventure

It doesn't need to be widened.
It needs to be adhered to, as almost everyone seems to know exactly what rape is.

And yet almost no rapes result in charges or convictions.

Hmmmm

Why is that do you think?

It’s not because the law needs changing. It’s because the men who rape women are being protected by those in Authority, who are mainly men.

The Hospital management should have been protecting the vulnerable women on the wards, but instead were more interested in pretending that a man dressed as a woman can’t possibly be a dangerous sex pest and then when the woman complained, instead of apologising and trying to put things right, they lied and lied and lied again.

I hope the staff involved are sacked, but that’s never going to happen, especially when so many women seem to be defending their actions. It’s bloody shameful!

Craicon Fri 18-Mar-22 13:50:46

Katie59

I’m wondering wether the hospital or the staff on the ward actually knew that the nurse was “trans”.
On any ward there is often only one qualified nurse on duty helped by a number of Clinical Support staff sometimes with only limited training. It would be easy for a creep to present as a woman, but trans rights obviously comes before patients rights.

It wasn’t a nurse, it was a male patient that carried out the rape.

maddyone Fri 18-Mar-22 13:54:20

If it was a male patient it makes it worse. We all know that there are both male and female nurses and midwives, but to have a male patient on a female ward or bay takes the biscuit in my opinion.

Hithere Fri 18-Mar-22 13:57:41

I hate the word "vulnerable", as if it is women are weaker, prey to all dangers in the world

It is not true, at all

Mamardoit Fri 18-Mar-22 13:57:41

GillT57

Stop the world, I want to get off.

I can't believe the apologists on here, hair splitting about whether the woman was raped or not, whether the perpetrator was a woman, or not. The facts are; a woman, in what should have been a place of safety was raped. By an intact male. Said woman was then told this could not be so as technically there were no men on the ward. There was, however, a penis on the ward, and it was used to rape a woman. If anyone, trans or intact or whatever raped my DD while she slept in her hospital bed they wouldn't need to have gender re-assignment surgery because I would rip it off them. Tin hat on, awaiting accusations of transphobia.

Yes. I have seven little granddaughters and I would do just the same.

The political party that prevents this happening in a hospital FFS and staff covering it up will get my vote.

Ilovecheese Fri 18-Mar-22 14:01:09

Hithere

I hate the word "vulnerable", as if it is women are weaker, prey to all dangers in the world

It is not true, at all

Actually, if you are ill enough to be in hospital, you are pretty vulnerable, even if you are usually not.

Galaxy Fri 18-Mar-22 14:01:56

Perhaps hithere thinks she should have fought harder.

Hithere Fri 18-Mar-22 14:03:21

Galaxy

Please tell me where I said that.

Nothing further from the truth

Galaxy Fri 18-Mar-22 14:04:38

So she was vulnerable to the steength of a male then.

Galaxy Fri 18-Mar-22 14:04:55

Strength sorry.

Hithere Fri 18-Mar-22 14:05:03

Not biting

Have a nice weekend!

FannyCornforth Fri 18-Mar-22 14:06:03

?Tom Swarbrick will be discussing this on LBC after 3

VioletSky Fri 18-Mar-22 14:06:15

Hithere

Galaxy

Please tell me where I said that.

Nothing further from the truth

I was very shocked to see that awful thought assigned to you and wanted you to know that was seen and it's not OK.

Galaxy Fri 18-Mar-22 14:06:54

Males as a general rule are stronger than women, not always but mostly, its partly why we need spaces that are single sex when we are vulnerable. So when we are naked, or ill or whatever.