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Good-bye to a dear Friend

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glammanana Sun 19-Jan-14 12:02:14

Everyone knows about my JR Barney and how he came to us rescued from the dog pound 5+yrs ago we have just this morning found him in his basket and he had died in his sleep,we are so so upset but look back on his last years as a bonus to us and to him a most faithful friend one could ever wish to meet.

Agus Tue 04-Mar-14 19:11:43

Oh Nellie I know how you are feeling. (((Hugs)))

grannyactivist Tue 04-Mar-14 19:20:48

Nellie, so sorry. flowers

MargaretX Tue 04-Mar-14 19:23:15

Ohglamma I am so sorry. I had a thread about my beloved ginger tom cat who died 4 weeks ago. It is such a sad time,-heartbreaking and just when I thought I was getting over it, the sun came out and we so MISSED him when we were busy in the garden.
I know that with a dog the relationship can be much closer. Unfortunately the dog in our family is also 14 years old.
My thoughts are with you at least he died in his sleep.

MrsM Tue 04-Mar-14 19:27:19

What a lucky dog to spend his twilight years with you and what a really lucky dog to just leave this world peacefully in his sleep - isn't this what we wish ourselves and everyone/every animal we love?

Hugs to you though - a horrible shock for you but time will pass and the pain will ease and you will think of him and his memory with a smile rather than a tear.

Margaret - hugs to you too

sigh We wouldn't have them if we didn't love them and if we didn't love them it wouldn't hurt so much

MrsM Tue 04-Mar-14 19:30:39

Ah - I'm sorry. I replied to a historic OP and a recent last post but missed nellie and her sad news of Millie. I am sorry that yoiu have received such sad news. I hope you can come to terms and do whatever is necessary to give your old friend the best possible and most timely end

Soutra Tue 04-Mar-14 19:30:52

nellie it will not make it any easier but so many of us can feel your grief and sorrow. Remember Millie knows nothing of this, she just knows that you love her and that she is safe with the people she loves most. You are her forever family sad

nigglynellie Tue 04-Mar-14 19:34:11

You are ALL very kind, and hugs from me too to all of you who have lost beloved pets. Margaret, I think a cat is just as heart-breaking - my last little cat died aged 7, years ago now, but I was heartbroken at the time and still miss her. We have had SO much kindness this evening both from you, and close friends. We are trying to be positive not easy!) for Millie's sake, as she always knows if I'm upset and I want her to be happy.

Deedaa Tue 04-Mar-14 22:20:18

So sorry nellie the only consolation is that Millie won't be worrying about the future. I hope you can still have some happy days together. flowers

Anne58 Tue 04-Mar-14 23:17:25

Sorry to hear your sad news nellie , I thought you weren't going to get the results until next week confused. I hope you enjoy your remaining time with Millie and that you have many happy memories of her. flowers

DebnCreme Tue 04-Mar-14 23:42:03

(((hugs))) to Nellie and all going through such a hard and sad time right now flowers

nigglynellie Wed 05-Mar-14 09:35:55

No, we didn't expect the results till Monday, but they came through yesterday afternoon and the vet rang us straight away. Trouble is Millie seems so well and lively, (have I said this before?!) it's hard to believe that she is SO stricken. This morning we are going to the vet to pick up some pain killers for her, and we're seeing the vet on Monday, and we shall just have to take it from there as to how we go along. I'm afraid OH and I aren't doing very well, but are determined to do our best for Millie. Lots of hugs from me to to everyone having a hard time. No more animals for us, I don't even want to own a glow-worm!!!!

glammanana Wed 05-Mar-14 09:51:59

Dearest nellie I'm so sorry I missed your post yesterday flowers for you and ((hugs)) enjoy your time with Millie xx

whenim64 Wed 05-Mar-14 10:31:03

nellie here's another (((hug))) for today. It's so tough knowing what you do and living with your companion in the last weeks and months of their lives. There'll be lots of lighter times, too, each time you get those moments when the puppy in Millie appears and she shows you she's enjoying herself and you. flowers