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Anya Sun 30-Aug-15 14:47:08

Dr. Laura Slessinger is a well-known conservative talk show host. She has expressed very negative beliefs about homosexuality.

She has firmly supported and advocated biblical morality on her TV and radio shows. The following is a tongue-in-cheek letter seeking Dr. Laura's advice on applying biblical morality and religious duties in today's world. Its author is unknown.

Dear Dr. Laura:

Thank you for doing so much to educate people regarding God's Law. I have learned a great deal from your show, and I try to share that knowledge with as many people as I can. When people try to defend the homosexual lifestyle, for example, I simply remind them that Leviticus 18:22 clearly states it to be an abomination. End of debate.

I do need some advice from you, however, regarding some of the specific laws and how to follow them:

a) When I burn a bull on the altar as a sacrifice, I know it creates a pleasing odor for the Lord (Lev.1:9).The problem is my neighbors. They claim the odor is not pleasing to them. Should I smite them?

b) I would like to sell my daughter into slavery, as sanctioned in Exodus 21:7.In this day and age, what do you think would be a fair price for her?

c) I know that I am allowed no contact with a woman while she is in her period of menstrual uncleanness (Lev.15:19-24).The problem is, how do I tell? I have tried asking, but most women take offense.

d) Lev.25:44 states that I may indeed possess slaves, both male and female, provided they are purchased from neighboring nations. A friend of mine claims that this applies to Mexicans, but not Canadians. Can you clarify? Why can't I own Canadians?

e) I have a neighbor who insists on working on the Sabbath. Exodus 35:2 clearly states he should be put to death. Am I morally obligated to kill him myself?

f) A friend of mine feels that even though eating shellfish is an abomination (Lev.11:10), it is a lesser abomination than homosexuality. I don't agree. Can you settle this?

g) Lev.21:20 states that I may not approach the altar of God if I have a defect in my sight. I have to admit that I wear reading glasses. Does my vision have to be 20/20, or is there some wiggle room here?

h) Most of my male friends get their hair trimmed, including the hair around their temples, even though this is expressly forbidden by Lev. 19:27. How should they die?

i) I know from Lev.11:6-8 that touching the skin of a dead pig makes me unclean, but may I still play football if I wear gloves?

j) My uncle has a farm. He violates Lev.19:19 by planting two different crops in the same field, as does his wife by wearing garments made of two different kinds of thread cotton/polyester blend. He also tends to curse and blaspheme a lot. Is it really necessary that we go to all the trouble of getting the whole town together to stone them (Lev.24:10-16)? Couldn't we just burn them to death at a private family affair like we do with people who sleep with their in-laws? (Lev.20:14)

I know you have studied these things extensively, so I am confident you can help. Thank you.

Lilygran Tue 08-Sept-15 09:36:09

I know your post was addressed to soon but I have to respond, feetle. 'Sin' is a religious term but most of what would be counted as sins would also be counted as unethical, dishonest or anti-social behaviours. I think the concept of 'original sin' is a recognition of the fact that we are all human, with all the potential for good and bad that is implied in being human. But so many weird beliefs have been attached to the concept that I really can't go there on one cup of coffee.

Elegran Tue 08-Sept-15 09:37:35

Original sin - born with a burden of sin before doing anything at all whatsoever because mankind as a whole and as individuals are still expiating the sin of Adam and Eve in disobeying God in the Garden of Eden. The sin (according to some denominations of Christianity) is inherited by us all.

Acording to wikipedia, the Methodist position is that The Methodist Church upholds Article VII in the Articles of Religion in the Book of Discipline of the United Methodist Church:

"Original sin standeth not in the following of Adam (as the Pelagians do vainly talk), but it is the corruption of the nature of every man, that naturally is engendered of the offspring of Adam, whereby man is very far gone from original righteousness, and of his own nature inclined to evil, and that continually."

Elegran Tue 08-Sept-15 09:41:46

A very pessimistic view of the nature of mankind, who are capable of the most non-sinning and selfless acts, regardless of their adherence or non-adherence to any form of religious doctrine, and calculated to bring individuals to their knees in self-loathing and abasement.

TriciaF Tue 08-Sept-15 10:04:52

Although I was brought up C of E (didn't start learning about Judaism until 25 years ago) I didn't want to have our children baptised there as the service says something about "born in sin."
The Methodist service was more straightforward, and the parents act as God parents. First son was baptised there, and youngest daughter. The other 2 have never been baptised.

Anniebach Tue 08-Sept-15 10:06:05

soon, original sin - because of the antics of Adam and Eve we are all born sinners. Every baby born today is a sinner. You were born a sinner as were your children and grandchildren . The R C Church is very into original sin, the Anglican Church was but thankfully have eased of. Let's forget for a moment the theologians views on original sin and allow me to give you an example of how it works in practise .

When I was eighteen my mother gave birth to a beautiful baby son, conceived in love, wanted so much by his parents , four sisters and little brother , we were filled with joy. Two days later he died, there was brain damage, I held the tiny hand of this beautiful dead child, someone had to, my parents were distraught , wasn't helped by the comforting words of a Christian - well you have been blessed with five healthy children , will not repeat my fathers reply. When this child was buried our family from gathered at the church, the same church we attended every Sunday, my mother was on the PCC, the priest a close friend of my father. My brothers coffin was not allowed to enter the church, the service was held in the porch with my father, his father and me, the rest of the family on the path. The reason? my brother had not been baptised so was a sinner . We were not told before hand this would happen . The priest wept but he was following the rules of the church on original sin. As written in the Old Testament written by your god soon. I was in bits, as we stood at the grave my father completed the burial service with these words of Christ

'Suffer the little children to come unto me for THEIRS is the kingdom of heaven '

Apologies to posters for such a personal post but some need to understand the pain , I repeat pain, the laws of the OLD TESTAMENT can cause
so soon, what would Jesus have done ?

Elegran Tue 08-Sept-15 10:21:34

Anniebach I don't subscribe to all the tenets of the Church, and I am not a regular churchgoer, but one thing that stands out about Jesus is that he emphasised that he was there for the outcasts, for those excluded by society. He condemned the Pharisees for their rigid upholding of the Law, and their neglect of common humanity in the process. Not eating the show bread was more important than feeding the hungry.

In his time it was people like lepers - who had a dreadful and very obvious disease - who were shunned. Now it would be people with Aids - another dreadful disease and one which can cause sufferers to be ostracised, a good deal of that because of the association in people's minds with homosexuality.

Not what Christ would have done.

As for denying unbaptised babes a proper burial - the recent outcry about the disposal of the bodies of still-born babes is an echo of that. Your father said it all.

Tolerance and grace? There is precious little of that, or of the spirit of the law, when the letter of the law is so enthusiastically espoused.

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 08-Sept-15 10:30:27

Which bit of the Old Testament was that priest going by? Chapter and verse. I thank God the C of E in my area had become more enlightened by around the time you are speaking of.

Anniebach Tue 08-Sept-15 10:34:38

Not the Priest Jingle, the Anglican Church and I did say the church has now moved on .

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 08-Sept-15 10:38:18

I am talking about the church at the time you are speaking of. Where in the bible did the church come across such a ruling?

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 08-Sept-15 10:40:40

Are you sure you didn't just have a mean spirited priest? I thank the Lord that the priest I had contact with at about that time had no such beliefs.

soontobe Tue 08-Sept-15 11:02:50

This is not a subject I have thought much, if anything about before. Not even sure I have heard of the concept previously.

I would say that we are not born sinners.
We are born with the capacity to sin, and all do. Your brother obviously hadn't.

I absolutely do not agree with your brother's coffin not going into the church. An awful decision in my opinion. And completely wrong.
I am not at all sure what the RC church thinks about baptism. I am only vaguely aware of what or how other denominations differ in this respect.

This only really part of my answer, and I havent looked into it all enough yet.
I will be back later hopefully.

Anniebach Tue 08-Sept-15 11:12:52

No Jingle he was not a mean spirited priest, it was the teachings of the Anglican Church and a priest who abided by the teachings . I do grant my parents the intelligence to know the teachings of the churches, my father the preacher of the Baptist Church fifty yards away from the Anglican Church and my mother chairperson of the PCC . A priest could not refuse a child's body in church if it was not the rule of the church .

Anniebach Tue 08-Sept-15 11:13:43

But soon, the bible tells us we are born sinners

Anniebach Tue 08-Sept-15 11:15:27

Jingle read the bible, you will find plenty about original sin, more than on homosexuality and the church is still battling with this one

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 08-Sept-15 12:09:29

Yes - I know about original sin. But I think you had a mean spirited priest. Very Welsh.

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 08-Sept-15 12:11:08

I do actually think the Welsh bit is relevant. Could be all that rain.

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 08-Sept-15 12:13:27

And I mean that seriously. The Welsh always have had certain characteristics. The vicar I had dealings with was from the South-East of England.

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 08-Sept-15 12:17:04

The RC church always asserted that un-baptised infants could not enter Heaven. They invented Limbo. Don't know if they've changed their thinking.

All a load of codswallop of course.

Anniebach Tue 08-Sept-15 12:27:38

Jingle, you Welsh dig was pathetic. The priest was English and let us not forget Wales married divorced couples and accepted women priests before England , and the Arch Bishop of Wales supported same sex marriages in 2012

I repeat a priest cannot make up their own rules

Luckygirl Tue 08-Sept-15 12:28:35

"I had to look up what original sin meant" and ^"Not even sure I have heard of the concept previously."^- now I know this is a wind-up!!! It is entirely impossible that you are for real soon.

No Christian, especially a bible-bound one, can possibly not know what this is! Do you not listen to the Christmas service? - I have sung in more carol services than I have had hot dinners and practically have to put my fingers in my ears at the relevant point.

"Original Blessing" by theologian Matthew Fox is an interesting counterpoint to the original sin spiel.

The Adam and Eve story is a myth, like all the others in all the religious texts around the world, and is a story to try and explain evil in the world. Like all these other myths it emanates from the ruling elite: hence men are the good guys and all the sin in the world is the fault of women. We are so unclean! This is partly what has held up women's ordination. And is why people translating the NT interpreted the word for "young woman" as being "virgin ", so the received wisdom of women being unclean could be perpetuated. So much to answer for. sad

If you really do believe the bible literally soon, maybe you should have a proper read of it!

I will settle for the love and tolerance and leave the bible to others - it is a theme in all religions, and seems a good way to live; and does not require intellectual contortions to understand and justify.

Anniebach Tue 08-Sept-15 12:29:57

The RC church has English priests jingle , very mean spirited, very english?

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 08-Sept-15 12:30:14

It wasn't a dig. The Welsh have always been known for their gloomy type of church-going.

Anniebach Tue 08-Sept-15 12:33:57

Luckygirl, my point to soon too ,which is why I spoke of the harm done by those who take the bible literally

Anniebach Tue 08-Sept-15 12:36:23

Have they jingle? I suppose you read How Green Was My Valley and believed Welsh miners came home from the pits singing

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 08-Sept-15 13:03:43

"Listen. It is night in the chill, squat chapel, hymning in bonnet and brooch and bombazine black, butterfly choker and bootlace bow, coughing like nannygoats, suckling mintoes, fortywinking hallelujah;"