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Beswitched Tue 15-Feb-22 21:13:32

Really riled about this. A poster started a thread earlier today about bossy pisters trying to control threads. A lot of other posters agreed and said they too had often been made to feel uncomfortable, belittled or jeered at by a minority of posters.

A couple of posters then came on accusing the OP of stirring it and saying people should Name names. Other pisters quite rightly pointed out that this was inappropriate and against rules. The thread was then abruptly zapped as 'not being in the spirit...'

Concerned, I started a thread wondering about the zapping and requesting an explanation. Again a majority of posters agreedand also asjed for an explanation. Again, a couple of posters came on saying they didn't like the original thread, and also objected to my thread.

Once again HQ zapped the thread with no proper explanation. What is going on here!

trisher Tue 15-Feb-22 22:31:00

Threads about threads have always been deleted. It's a question of hedging around the subject without actually saying it was on another thread. Maybe it's GNHQ making sure we keep our wits about us. Or maybe it's like on Fawlty Towers- "Don't mention the war!"

Caleo Tue 15-Feb-22 22:33:18

"Pisters" is so funny! Best laugh all day. thanks.

Blossoming Tue 15-Feb-22 22:41:48

Can I join the “Pisters” clique? It’s been a long day and I’m weary.

rafichagran Tue 15-Feb-22 22:45:52

Pisters is a very funny typo.

GillT57 Tue 15-Feb-22 22:51:49

JaneJudge

certain posters
bossy posters
groups of posters
posting posters

My thoughts exactly smile. These whiny stirring the pot type posts do not end well, make people feel uncomfortable wondering if they are "provocative" or members of "a coven".

tickingbird Tue 15-Feb-22 23:00:03

Yes some do seem to feel rather uncomfortable hmm

lemsip Tue 15-Feb-22 23:17:15

Beswitched
Typos

Ro60 Wed 16-Feb-22 01:37:22

So many deleted threads - looks like I missed so much!

Namsnanny Wed 16-Feb-22 01:58:43

Blossoming

Can I join the “Pisters” clique? It’s been a long day and I’m weary.

'Pisters' (said with a French accent!)
It sounds very exclusive.
You start it off Blossoming and I'll second you grin

welbeck Wed 16-Feb-22 02:14:49

pisseur de copie ?

Kaimoana Wed 16-Feb-22 02:40:34

I blame the Russians.

Or sunspots.

Or Covid.

nanna8 Wed 16-Feb-22 04:17:45

Piston broke- poster with no money?

FannyCornforth Wed 16-Feb-22 05:08:37

It’s not really that ‘thread about a thread’ thing. That’s an excuse.
How can talking about a thread be ‘against the spirit’?

It’s more the fact that it’s bitching about each other

That’s why they get deleted.

I don’t know why HQ just don’t come out with it.
‘No bitching allowed’ ?

Nicegranny Wed 16-Feb-22 05:18:32

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nanna8 Wed 16-Feb-22 05:19:26

Guess we are all from different backgrounds and what some would say is bitchy others might find amusing. Some are easily offended, some are not. After the Coven left, a year or so back, it seems to me there is not a great deal of bitching and nastiness here. Or at least, being in a different time zone, it has gone by the time I look. Probably a good thing I suppose.

FannyCornforth Wed 16-Feb-22 05:29:19

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FannyCornforth Wed 16-Feb-22 05:31:50

Ok, perhaps I should not have said bitching, but we can’t talk about each other and keep referring to ‘certain posters’. It just creates tension and upset.
I thought that it was obvious !

FannyCornforth Wed 16-Feb-22 05:32:45

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FannyCornforth Wed 16-Feb-22 05:33:29

I have no idea who ‘the coven’ are / were?

Whitewavemark2 Wed 16-Feb-22 06:21:53

More playground nonsense.

Lucca Wed 16-Feb-22 06:45:28

Wwm indeed! What coven ?
Ive thought things rather dull recently is that why all this nonsense?

Galaxy Wed 16-Feb-22 06:47:04

Was there a coven I wasnt invited to. I take offense at that.

Goodbyetoallthat Wed 16-Feb-22 07:11:23

Not again!
Isn't this pretty much a rerun of yesterday's deleted thread with the added bonus of a few posters tittering about a typo in the OP?

Maudi Wed 16-Feb-22 07:24:04

Well some posters obviously feel that there is a problem so why not be sympathic to them instead of the usual sarcastic posts. Perhaps the ones posting that there isn't a problem/cliques /bullying are the actual problem. confused

Galaxy Wed 16-Feb-22 07:25:27

Sorry should we just tolerate people calling people names. Is that that the rule now.