Am I too old to show my cleavage?

Lucca

Grandma70s

I have always felt that cliché about not saying anything at all if you can’t say something nice would make for a pretty deadly level of conversation and discussion.

Indeed

Indeed, but it can be done without being rude or hurtful.

I have never felt comfortable flashing too much chest, so I bought online a lacy modesty thingy, its about the size of a handkerchief and is fastened by press stud to your bra straps, it works for me whatever makes you happy.

All posters beware!

Fat blokes can where and reveal wot they like too!

But for some reason all posters would tend to have a negative take on that.

Revealing that there is a bias against fat blokes.

Sparklefizz

Juliet27

Yes, Sophia Loren looks wonderful. I find that my décolletage looks ok if my shoulders are back but if I have to move my arms together then the wrinkles appear ?

Yes, exactly that .... and the creases are not appealing.

But that wasn’t the question was it from Anno?

Certain looks and styles may not be the best on any of us for a multitude of reasons , but the wearers ‘age’ is irrelevant.

Wear it with pride and a smile,girl power.

Grandma70s
Oh how true. My dearest friend just can’t get it together ( style wise) when she asks me does this look ok I tell her straight.

But, who is to say that you are right, Meryl.

Kittylester
How true ? she’s always happier, though.

Have you tried wearing it at home and seeing how you feel doing everyday things in it, that might give you a better idea of how you feel in it. Having waited 10 years to wear it I say crack on.

If I had a cleavage I’d flaunt it. Go for it!

Can you post a picture of the dress please Anno?
You don’t need to be inside it!

Good idea FC

Wear it and be fabulous.

I think you should wear whatever you want; we all should.

I am a big fan of draping a scarf to finish off an outfit so if you are in any doubt try that anno. You can always whip it off if you feel it is unnecessary.

Age is irrelevant - personal pride is the thing. If I don't feel fabulous, then I don't wear it.

I’ve never liked seeing women of whatever age displaying their cleavage. I know I won’t be popular for saying that. I’m not a prude, far from it. I’ve just never thought it looks good or stylish.

I have a friend who is 70 and has her (very ample) cleavage on show at every possible opportunity. She doesn't give a hoot what anyone else thinks.

Regardless of what anyone says on here, if you’re asking the question should you wear it, then you must feel slightly uncomfortable about potentially wearing it.

If you’re comfortable about when wearing it then go ahead, but if not then don’t, as that’s all you’ll be thinking about when you do wear it. If that makes sense!

Not a fan of older women showing cleavage. My kids would be embarrassed and I think it looks tack and desperate.

Tacky

Shelmiss

Regardless of what anyone says on here, if you’re asking the question should you wear it, then you must feel slightly uncomfortable about potentially wearing it.

If you’re comfortable about when wearing it then go ahead, but if not then don’t, as that’s all you’ll be thinking about when you do wear it. If that makes sense!

That makes sense!

Shake what your mumma gave you and be proud. My friend Donna is dying from breast cancer and believe me, she’d love to still have breasts and if she did she’d be proud of that cleavage. Life’s too short to one day regret not wearing it - you put those girls on show!

So what’s the secret to the weight loss at 70 though? What’d you do? Special diet? Extra exercise? Magic pills?

If you like yourself in it then wear it. Its nobody else's business

Oh yuck, Platypus. I’m with halfpint. I was going to say ‘common’ and now I have. I live in a tourist area and some of the ample cleavages (coupled with uncovered wobbly arms and often tattoos) on display look gross. Sympathy to your friend though.