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Long Lost Families

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mrsmopp Wed 06-Sept-17 22:09:12

I find this programme incredibly moving. So many babies given for adoption when being born out of wedlock had such a stigma. Families torn apart for various reasons and always searching for missing parents and siblings.
I know the format is the same each time but I think it's very well presented and to see people reunited often after many years is wonderful. Blood is thicker than water for sure and the programme does such a good job bringing people together again. Wonderful!

norose4 Mon 11-Sept-17 12:39:30

Try the registration offices in Clapham , they keep Old records of births Etc

Morgana Mon 11-Sept-17 17:51:18

I wonder if the baby brother had a different dad and that is why the mum could not keep him? Maybe he went to live with paternal family?

Serkeen Mon 11-Sept-17 17:55:48

Yes it is a good programme and as you say very moving.

What it makes me think is of all the families that are together and not long lost at al,l that bicker, everyday and do not speak to each other for years for various reasons..

Christinefrance Mon 11-Sept-17 21:29:53

Each to their own as they say.

nellgwin Tue 12-Sept-17 16:19:55

yes Morgana spot on. My mother was unfaithful for much of her married life, my twin brother and I were born 7 & 8 out of 10 children. My father always told me I was a B*** but I was to young to know what it meant.
He regularly beat my brother(who wet the bed up to 15 years of age) and beat me every opportunity he found any excuse. My mother never interfered, I can not remember a hug or a kiss from her and I used to pray that one day someone would come along and rescue me and adopt me.
I went to a grammar school but with every success in my studies he would beat me. When I was 15 I was told to report to the headmasters office and was shocked to see my father there, he said I had to leave school and I stupidly said "No I have to stay on to do my GCSE because I wanted to train as a nurse".
He's response was " No, if you became a nurse you would be no better than a prostitute, a factory is good enough for you" My father was a police officer! so had a responsible career. So my youngest brother had a lucky escape and yes I did eventually become a nurse! through hard work and determination.

Christinefrance Tue 12-Sept-17 17:08:59

That is so sad nellgwin a very difficult start to your life but you attained your ambition, well done.

DanniRae Tue 12-Sept-17 19:19:15

Oh nellgwin how sad. I hope you and all your brothers and sisters grew up to have happy lives?