60th birthday gift ideas for her & him

Looking for the perfect 60th birthday gift? Turning 60 is a major milestone – whether it's your mum, dad, partner, friend or even yourself hitting the big 6-0, it deserves to be celebrated in style. To help make the occasion special, we’ve rounded up 10 of the best 60th birthday gift ideas, all recommended by Gransnet users. From unique experiences and personalised keepsakes to indulgent treats and thoughtful presents, there’s something here for everyone. Whether you’re planning a big celebration, a relaxing getaway, or a quiet moment with cake and fizz, we’ve got inspiring gift suggestions to suit every kind of 60th birthday.

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1. Have a barn dance or ceilidh

"I had a ceilidh for my 60th. An excellent knees up, lots of opportunity for people to meet new friends, no dancing experience needed, music not so loud you couldn't hear yourself think, just a great deal of jolly good fun." tiggypiro

Fancy something a bit different for your 60th birthday? How about throwing a barn dance or ceilidh – guaranteed fun for all ages, including the grandchildren! These lively, music-filled gatherings are perfect for anyone who wants to dance their socks (or cowboy boots) off.

No dance experience? No problem. A caller will guide everyone through the steps, so all you need is a sense of humour and a willingness to join in. While barn dances have a Wild West vibe, ceilidhs are rooted in Gaelic tradition – both offer high-energy fun and a brilliant way to bring together friends, family, and even neighbours.

You don’t need a barn either – a village hall, marquee, or community centre works just as well. Add a fun twist by making it a themed event: think plaid shirts and stetsons for a barn dance, or kilts for a ceilidh!

Need ideas for party food to match the mood? Check out this Gransnet thread for inspiration on what to serve at your birthday barn dance. For information on booking your very own ceilidh, visit Sound With Us. 

 

2. Get a tattoo

“I would like a little flower (my name) on my bottom.” BBbevan
 

Thinking of doing something bold to mark your 60th birthday? If it’s good enough for Dame Judi Dench - who got her first tattoo at 81 - why not consider getting inked to celebrate your own milestone?

Booking a tattoo might seem a little out of the ordinary for a 60th, but if you’ve secretly longed for one for years, now could be the perfect time. Whether it’s a meaningful quote, a delicate floral design, or something symbolic, a birthday tattoo can be a beautiful, personal way to commemorate this new chapter.

Just be sure to research local tattoo artists, check portfolios, and read reviews before making your choice. If you’re after ideas, Gransnet user Janiepops shared a photo of the lovely floral tattoo she got for a special birthday:

“I still love it! Skin on the foot and ankle doesn’t wrinkle even when you’re older. I get so many compliments—people say, ‘Ooh, I fancy one now!’”

Still not sure? Start small. You don’t have to go full sleeve - unless you want to, of course!

 

3. Get married or renew your wedding vows

Looking to celebrate your 60th with something truly memorable? Why not add a touch of romance and tie the knot – or, if you're already married, renew your wedding vows in style. A 60th birthday is the perfect excuse to mark a new chapter in life, whether you're reliving the joy of your wedding day or reaffirming your love and commitment. Whether you dream of a lavish celebration with friends and family or a more intimate, low-key ceremony, this milestone birthday – perhaps paired with a special anniversary – offers a unique opportunity to make it unforgettable.

Before making any big decisions, it's worth understanding the legal side of getting married or renewing your vows – Gransnetters share helpful insights in this thread. 

And if you need a new outfit, John Lewis bridal has you covered with this gorgeous selection of dresses and separates to suit every budget. 

 

4. Book a staycation 

“For my husband’s 60th birthday we went with friends to an old monastery that had cottages in the grounds. They were very comfortable with big log fire places and lovely country walks.” Cherrytree59

Looking for a memorable way to celebrate your 60th birthday? Alongside opening gifts and cards, why not mark the occasion by visiting somewhere new? A special staycation could be just the thing – offering a change of scenery with a UK getaway without the stress of airport queues.

From coastal cottages to countryside lodges, the UK is full of beautiful spots to explore.

Gransnetter Cherrytree59 shared:

“I know quite a few people who celebrate with family and friends by booking a house or cottage with a hot tub. Everyone brings their own drinks and orders food from a local online supermarket – it’s so easy and fun.”

Even a simple trip can feel extra special when shared with loved ones. Gransnet user leyla said:

“I’m planning lots of low-key celebrations with friends, and we’re also booking a lovely trip together in the spring.”

 

Whether it’s a hot tub break, a cosy countryside escape, or a seaside retreat, staying in the UK gives you plenty of options – just don’t forget to pack a raincoat (just in case).

Try Luxury Cottages for beautiful cottages around the UK.

 

5. Have a classic birthday party

“Book the village hall or church hall, invite as many as you like and do the buffet catering yourself ( or with help from friends)” lemongrove

Prefer to keep things classic? There’s absolutely nothing wrong with celebrating a 60th birthday the traditional way – with cake, conversation, party poppers and plenty of bubbles. A well-planned party never goes out of style, and turning 60 is the perfect reason to bring everyone together.

Whether you’re thinking of an elegant afternoon tea, a glamorous cocktail party, or something more playful like fancy dress or a masquerade ball, the options are endless. You could even hire a private room at your favourite restaurant or pub for a more personal touch.

The beauty of a 60th birthday party is its flexibility – it can be as small or as extravagant as you like. While it may require a bit more planning (and budget), it’s a wonderful way to mark a major milestone surrounded by the people you love.

And don’t forget the cake! Waitrose offers a wide range of ready-made and personalised birthday cakes – perfect for adding a sweet finishing touch to your celebration.

 

6. Jet off abroad 

“We went to Switzerland for my 60th. My birthday is in January and snow was thick on the ground the day I was born. So we decided to embrace the snow. Rather than seek out warmer climes. It was beautiful.” ninathenana

Want to make your 60th birthday truly unforgettable? Why not celebrate with an adventure abroad – soaking up new sights, cultures and cuisines. A special trip can be the perfect way to mark this milestone in style, whether you're travelling solo, with a partner, or with family and friends.

Well-travelled Gransnetter Ginny recommends: “How about Italy? Maybe Tuscany or Puglia. Sunshine, scenery and wonderful food.” Sounds dreamy, right? Or if Spain’s more your style, FoxyLoxy  suggests: “My go-to place to celebrate special birthdays is Seville. You can rent something nice through TripAdvisor or Airbnb. You get the best of everything – relaxed or adventurous. We often take a train to Cordoba or Jerez too – great sights, culture, food and flamenco.”

From wine tasting in the Tuscan hills to tapas and sangria in Seville, a 60th birthday holiday can be as relaxing or as exciting as you like. Whether it’s a sunny city break, a beach escape or a foodie tour, there’s no shortage of inspiring destinations.

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7. Have a small but sweet birthday gathering 

“Invite your nearest family over for a party or a special meal at your home?” lemongrove

Prefer a party without the fuss? A low-key 60th birthday celebration can be just as meaningful – and a lot less stressful – especially if you only invite your nearest and dearest. If the idea of catering feels overwhelming, why not host a potluck party and ask everyone to bring a dish to share?

If the weather holds, take it outside! String up some bunting in the garden, lay out some nibbles, and enjoy a relaxed afternoon catching up with loved ones in the sunshine.

Gransnetter shysal offers this no-stress suggestion: “Hold an open house on the day of your choice, inviting family and friends to drop in between certain times. You’d only need nibbles or buffet food – close family could bring some along, plus a cake.”

Need a hand with food? Marks & Spencer offers a delicious range of made-to-order sandwich platters and party food to help you serve up something tasty without spending hours in the kitchen.

  

8. Go on a cruise

“We love the Danube, the Rhine and the Seine : for scenery most of the time the first two are great with lovely castles popping up…We liked the stops on the Seine like Monet's garden.” Floradora9

Always dreamed of sailing the seas? Why not celebrate your 60th birthday aboard a luxurious cruise ship? Whether you opt for an ocean cruise or a more serene river cruise, you’ll experience stunning views, enjoy the luxury of downtime on board, and indulge in delicious dinners each night. Cruises can be a fantastic way to treat yourself, especially for solo travellers looking for a memorable adventure.

Gransnetter B9exchange shares her experience: “If you can treat yourself to a foreign holiday, a cruise is a great option. They’re full of solo travellers, and if you choose a cruise where you sit at the same table each evening, you’ll get to know people before your birthday. The staff will often surprise you with a special celebration cake, and you might even get an upgrade if the company knows it’s a significant birthday!”

Ready to set sail? Explore the fantastic options available with Fred Olsen Cruise Lines and find your perfect birthday getaway. 

 

9. Have a pamper party

“I would treat myself to a pamper day at a very nice hotel not far from me. Facial, massage along with lunch and fizz.” GrannyGravy13

Looking for the ultimate way to treat yourself on your 60th birthday? There’s no better time to indulge in a little ‘me time’. If you’re in need of some rest and relaxation, a spa day or weekend getaway could be just what the doctor ordered. Whether you go solo or invite a few friends or family, you’ll feel rejuvenated after a series of luxurious treatments, from massages to pedicures and facials. After all that pampering, you’ll feel like you’ve turned back the clock – and might even want to take a few candles off your birthday cake!

Gransnetter silverlining48 shares her love for spa breaks: “Champneys Spa resorts are a wonderful way to spend a few days in a beautiful hotel with gorgeous grounds. They offer great food and fantastic spa treatments. I always go alone, and there’s a choice of dining solo or at a table with other single guests. It’s mostly a female clientele, with the occasional couple. As friendly as you want it to be!”

Ready to unwind? Check out Red Letter Days for a variety of pampering spa experiences and book your own slice of relaxation.

 

 

10. Go in a hot air balloon ride

Looking for a truly unforgettable way to celebrate your 60th birthday? How about a hot air balloon ride? Imagine gliding through the skies, gazing down at rolling green fields, winding rivers, and tiny villages below. It’s the perfect way to mark this milestone with a sense of adventure and serenity.

Gransnetter SueH49 is a fan: “For my 60th birthday, I did a hot air balloon ride. It was an amazing experience.”

If a hot air balloon ride has always been on your bucket list but you’ve never quite made it happen, your 60th birthday could be the perfect time to take the plunge and soar through the clouds. Gransnetter Nanette1955 also dreams of this adventure: “Fly in a glider, and a trip in a hot air balloon.”

Why not treat yourself to this unforgettable experience? You could even have your loved ones join you on this once-in-a-lifetime birthday celebration, as long as they’re not afraid of heights (and don’t forget to bring some champagne to enjoy up there!).

Ready to float among the clouds? Check out Virgin Balloon Flights for nationwide booking information.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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