I have just deleted a longer post as I realised it would outing and could cause upset.
So edited version....
My friend's father would have been married to his first wife (who I knew and liked) for about 30 years and was with his partner (who I know and like) for just over 30 years.
I had a feeling that he would be buried with his first wife and recently I was proven to be right as my friend's father has now sadly died .
I understand that for the adult children their mother and father are now together and from a financial point of view they already had plot but....
I feel so sorry for his long term partner who has nursed him through his long term illness.
She has been part of the family and a grandmother to his eight grandchildren.
The grandchildren were not even born when the first wife passed away.
The grave is close to my parents grave, so I see it when I visit and for some reason I feel really uncomfortable.
I would be interested to
read other GNers thoughts.
I’m finished my festival poncho
Scottish political mess. Is Devolution working?
Last weekend, in Rutland, the first statue in Britain of the late Elizabeth II was unveiled.