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tickingbird Wed 10-Jul-24 16:12:31

I saw earlier that 3 women had been found dead and police were looking for a named person in his mid twenties.

It now transpires that the women were a mother and her two adult daughters and they were the wife and daughters of racing commentator, John Hunt. Apparently they were shot with a crossbow.

I’m so shocked and can’t begin to imagine their terror and the shock and grief of Mr Hunt. Just appalling. I hope the person responsible is caught very quickly.

MissAdventure Thu 11-Jul-24 12:14:58

Oh, unless onr thinks all executions are wrongful.
I meant an innocent person being put to death.

Anniebach Thu 11-Jul-24 12:16:04

The death penalty did not prevent murders

Callistemon213 Thu 11-Jul-24 12:18:55

Iam64

I’m with Annie, Wyllow and Callistemon in opposing the death penalty. We have moved from state sponsored murder. I’m horrified by the way the death penalty is imposed in the USA and by the way spectators are in the room watching the perpetrator die, often prolonged agony. How that’s supposed to help anyone is beyond me.
America is a violent society

I think it would cheer me up no end to do to them what they have done to others, especially to a child.
But I know it's wrong and I'd probably feel terrible afterwards.

MissAdventure Thu 11-Jul-24 12:21:06

It prevents the perpetrator from committing more.

Some of them want a death sentence.

It prevents them from being given a new identity and joining another innocent family's inner circle of trusted friends, or partners, step parents,

Wyllow3 Thu 11-Jul-24 12:22:51

Horrific mistakes are made in the USA: Since 1973, at least 200 people who had been wrongly convicted and sentenced to death in the U.S. have been exonerated. (not all states have the penalty, most do).

Again, I accept that from what people have said above they would want that if it had happened in their family, but for others it would add to the burden, could give the opposite to so called "closure".

info on this in site USA
ejusa.org/resource/the-closure-myth/

Callistemon213 Thu 11-Jul-24 12:24:13

MissAdventure

It prevents the perpetrator from committing more.

Some of them want a death sentence.

It prevents them from being given a new identity and joining another innocent family's inner circle of trusted friends, or partners, step parents,

I don't think anyone convicted of an evil crime should be released early or given a new identity.

It was rumoured that someone who aided and abetted a child murderer was living nearby, miles from where they originated and with a new identity and look, putting fear into parents at a local school.

Anniebach Thu 11-Jul-24 12:24:36

Doesn’t prevent others from committing murder , you speak of revenge not justice

MissAdventure Thu 11-Jul-24 12:24:50

And yet almost everyone was in agreement about killing Putin.
I asked at that time, does ones belief vary?

maddyone Thu 11-Jul-24 12:27:30

Calendargirl

A man called Shane Gilmer was killed with a crossbow in January 2018, after disputes with a neighbour.

His pregnant partner was also wounded, but she and the baby survived.

I think it went down as ‘unlawful killing’, not ‘murder’

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The killer must have intended killing him, surely.

This is unfortunately happening more and more. I don’t agree with it. I think if a person is murdered, then they are murdered. The family of Barnaby Webber are currently calling for a Public Inquiry on this very subject, with regard to their murdered son. The man who murdered him was charged with manslaughter.

MissAdventure Thu 11-Jul-24 12:28:01

Anniebach

Doesn’t prevent others from committing murder , you speak of revenge not justice

Yes, I accept that.
I also do think that it protects others from ever having the misfortune of inadvertently admitting them into their inner circle, because whole life sentences are small, compared to the amount of people who murder.
Murder, that is, not kill.

Anniebach Thu 11-Jul-24 12:30:09

Thrn support whole life sentences not murder

MissAdventure Thu 11-Jul-24 12:31:37

I support both.

Anniebach Thu 11-Jul-24 12:32:45

I don’t, I knew Timothy Evans sister

sodapop Thu 11-Jul-24 12:33:24

Whethertomorrow

As I understand it he is now fighting for his life in hospital.

I feel sorry for the medical team who have to deal with him. I’d let him die asap.

He is taking medical care away from some decent person in need.

Medical staff try to save lives Whethertomorrow not up to them to decide if a patient is worth saving or not. Otherwise where would it stop.

Boz Thu 11-Jul-24 12:37:55

sodapop

Whethertomorrow

As I understand it he is now fighting for his life in hospital.

I feel sorry for the medical team who have to deal with him. I’d let him die asap.

He is taking medical care away from some decent person in need.

Medical staff try to save lives Whethertomorrow not up to them to decide if a patient is worth saving or not. Otherwise where would it stop.

I'd hold back on the painkillers though.

Boz Thu 11-Jul-24 12:42:22

Often these awful attacks are suicide missions; I'm going and you are coming with me is in their minds.
The terrible thing about cross-bows is that you do not have to get close to your victim. You could get shot in your house through an open window. Those poor women didn't stand a chance.

Wyllow3 Thu 11-Jul-24 12:42:23

MissAdventure

And yet almost everyone was in agreement about killing Putin.
I asked at that time, does ones belief vary?

When was this? Don't recall the context.

Iam64 Thu 11-Jul-24 12:45:25

Boz, it seems this murderer tried to take his life. These men who murder their families often then take their own life.

eazybee Thu 11-Jul-24 12:50:35

I don't think the death penalty will return in this country and I would never petition for its return, but although it did not prevent all murders I think it acted as a deterrent. There seem to be so many murders perpetrated now for the most trivial of reasons, because 'he told me off, they looked at me in a funny way, he disrespected me, she dumped me' etc.etc. etc.

MissAdventure Thu 11-Jul-24 12:51:49

I can't remember exactly when, or even the context, (I wasn't well)
It might come up in the search feature.

Dianehillbilly1957 Thu 11-Jul-24 12:52:59

Absolutely tragically heartbreaking, no words to describe this awful thing that has happened to this innocent family. I hope some how they find strength and a way to go on.

Chestnut Thu 11-Jul-24 12:54:50

Grandma70s It is very strange that some people supposedly condemning violence want to answer it with more violence. Revenge is a very primitive reaction. At least the law has moved beyond that.
The death penalty has nothing to do with violence or revenge. It is punishment for a heinous crime which is beyond forgiveness. Some people are just too evil and too dangerous and there is no hope of healing them. Think of cannibals.

Anniebach I am against the death penalty, is hanging an innocent person acceptable which certainly happened when we did have the desth penalty
If the death penalty was brought back it should be for unspeakable murders where there is no doubt. After all we have DNA evidence and CCTV as well as witnesses for crimes in public places. Think of Lee Rigby. There should be different categories of murder and hanging is not the method which would be used today.

Wyllow3 Thu 11-Jul-24 13:00:22

MissAdventure

And yet almost everyone was in agreement about killing Putin.
I asked at that time, does ones belief vary?

Here, 2022?
www.gransnet.com/forums/news_and_politics/1309915-Putin-cancer-surgery?pg=3

Opinions varied greatly.

Dillonsgranma Thu 11-Jul-24 13:03:01

Terrible. That poor family. What a terrible way to die

Granmarderby10 Thu 11-Jul-24 13:09:24

easybee yes this is what really scares me. There seems to be a lack of resilience, but is a very complex issue that will be deeply embedded in upbringing and home or family environment.