AgathaRay -- I have a list of mental health issues which I have been recovering from for years. I have done years of work to be emotionally healthier, so to hear from anyone, especially my MiL, "You need more therapy, I think you're depressed." or anything of the like, would be a huge slap in the face to me.
You need to read the EAC threads here and the articles posted there about dysfunctional behavior.
"I never told her she was losing it! I believe it was a very calm, gentle suggestion that she go speak to a physician about possible depression. I myself have been treated for various, minor issues in mental health. It’s nothing to be ashamed about."
"I will mention here that I did not express that thought to anyone but my DH."
Trust me. Regardless of how gentle/calm you think you were or what you said, if it is going through your mind that she is "losing it", then they knew that's what you meant. Dysfunctional thinkers are shocked to learn that when their victims get healthy, they can see the meaning behind the words and not just what the person is saying.
Good Morning Saturday 20th April 2024
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic