I have just come across this series of messages so please forgive me if I'm saying something that's been said before.
My only GC was born after I was eligible for state pension and, as his parents were both working full-time, I decided to retire and move near to them. We have been so lucky in that it has worked well for all of us. Mum and Dad have been able to continue in their jobs (with some variations in hours) and initially I looked after DGS every weekday. Since he started school I collect him from there each Friday during term time and he stays overnight with me, which gives his parents time to 'do their own thing'. I am also available to help with doctor/dentist appointments etc and school holidays when other set of grandparents (who live abroad) are not always able to visit. I know I am lucky to have this opportunity and enjoy it immensely. Equally his parents are appreciative and include everyone at every opportunity, while also keeping time for just the three of them. Sounds almost too good to be true but DGS has an incurable neurological disorder, which was diagnosed six years ago, and it's hard work at times for all of us.
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