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Religious tolerance

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Anya Sun 30-Aug-15 14:47:08

Dr. Laura Slessinger is a well-known conservative talk show host. She has expressed very negative beliefs about homosexuality.

She has firmly supported and advocated biblical morality on her TV and radio shows. The following is a tongue-in-cheek letter seeking Dr. Laura's advice on applying biblical morality and religious duties in today's world. Its author is unknown.

Dear Dr. Laura:

Thank you for doing so much to educate people regarding God's Law. I have learned a great deal from your show, and I try to share that knowledge with as many people as I can. When people try to defend the homosexual lifestyle, for example, I simply remind them that Leviticus 18:22 clearly states it to be an abomination. End of debate.

I do need some advice from you, however, regarding some of the specific laws and how to follow them:

a) When I burn a bull on the altar as a sacrifice, I know it creates a pleasing odor for the Lord (Lev.1:9).The problem is my neighbors. They claim the odor is not pleasing to them. Should I smite them?

b) I would like to sell my daughter into slavery, as sanctioned in Exodus 21:7.In this day and age, what do you think would be a fair price for her?

c) I know that I am allowed no contact with a woman while she is in her period of menstrual uncleanness (Lev.15:19-24).The problem is, how do I tell? I have tried asking, but most women take offense.

d) Lev.25:44 states that I may indeed possess slaves, both male and female, provided they are purchased from neighboring nations. A friend of mine claims that this applies to Mexicans, but not Canadians. Can you clarify? Why can't I own Canadians?

e) I have a neighbor who insists on working on the Sabbath. Exodus 35:2 clearly states he should be put to death. Am I morally obligated to kill him myself?

f) A friend of mine feels that even though eating shellfish is an abomination (Lev.11:10), it is a lesser abomination than homosexuality. I don't agree. Can you settle this?

g) Lev.21:20 states that I may not approach the altar of God if I have a defect in my sight. I have to admit that I wear reading glasses. Does my vision have to be 20/20, or is there some wiggle room here?

h) Most of my male friends get their hair trimmed, including the hair around their temples, even though this is expressly forbidden by Lev. 19:27. How should they die?

i) I know from Lev.11:6-8 that touching the skin of a dead pig makes me unclean, but may I still play football if I wear gloves?

j) My uncle has a farm. He violates Lev.19:19 by planting two different crops in the same field, as does his wife by wearing garments made of two different kinds of thread cotton/polyester blend. He also tends to curse and blaspheme a lot. Is it really necessary that we go to all the trouble of getting the whole town together to stone them (Lev.24:10-16)? Couldn't we just burn them to death at a private family affair like we do with people who sleep with their in-laws? (Lev.20:14)

I know you have studied these things extensively, so I am confident you can help. Thank you.

Luckygirl Fri 04-Sept-15 13:57:49

"Do you believe that God is awesome, powerful, can do anything? That he can overcome the devil?
Have you read the book of Job?"

If he's got a moment he might like to deal with the refugee crisis if it's not too much to ask.

"Was your husband a Christian?" - for goodness sake soon - how can you ask such a question of someone who is widowed. His religion is irrelevant. He was a loved husband - that is what matters. I dread to think what appalling ideas you will attach to whatever the answers to these questions are.

This thread is about religious tolerance, and sadly it is the sort of views that you propound that make such tolerance a huge challenge.

I find the robotic quality of this sort of belief system truly terrifying.

Anniebach Fri 04-Sept-15 14:12:40

soon, I have read Job, yes God is all powerful , doesn't follow he chooses his power to pick and choose.

I do not believe in hell in the afterlife, I think we can make our own hell in this life

My husband was a Christian , he did wrestle after a few years in the police force though, his first accident scene was grim, a young mother killed and he had to take her three little one's away from her body so she could be taken from the crash. He went on to work in C I D, was scene of crimes officer for a while, photographing victims of murder, suicide, crashes, fires doesn't make for a happy day. He went to the MET to work with vice for a while , child abuse and rape does affect the sanest of minds . He died on a drugs raid , he didn't die because he was wrestling with his faith, he died because the car crashed, he was thrown out of the car, broke his jaw, was unconscious, fell on his back and choked to death on his blood , that simple really . Accidents happened, they are not God arranged . He was not ill.

Anniebach Fri 04-Sept-15 14:19:09

Luckygirl, it's fine, I said I had no problem with questions , I hope soon will understand that it is possible to be a Christian without having to be fearful of some God of vengeance

soon, did he not say - I am a God slow to anger and abounding in STEADFAST love

Alea Fri 04-Sept-15 15:04:21

anniebach I feel very humbled by your posts. Just saying flowers

granjura Fri 04-Sept-15 15:11:03

same here annie flowers

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 04-Sept-15 15:25:12

This thread sounds very bullying towards soon. It is a fact that Christians believe that God can lessen pain, or at least make it more bearable, through prayer. That is all soon has asserted.

Jesus said that whatever we ask of God in his (Jesus's) name, will be granted. BUT you have to have utter and complete faith. And pray long and hard. Not easy to meet that criteria.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 04-Sept-15 15:27:25

I don't think it's necessary to trot out all the bad things that have happened in your life, just make another feel bad.

You have twisted soon's words and thoughts. And it's the usual suspects. Again. #Gransnet

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 04-Sept-15 15:29:56

oh look

Anniebach Fri 04-Sept-15 15:42:22

jingle, not a case of trotting out bad things, it is using bad happenings for the good of others, doesn't trouble me in the slightest that it can be claimed people can be healed or eased of pain by prayer, give a thought for anyone reading this thread , who is grieving, has a child with an illness or disability which cannot be cured , who may have prayed or may think - perhaps if I had prayed , what of that pain

Alea Fri 04-Sept-15 15:47:50

Didn't know we were posting selfies?

TriciaF Fri 04-Sept-15 16:03:20

sad I knew this would happen - it always does sad

Anniebach Fri 04-Sept-15 16:08:21

What's happened ?

Elegran Fri 04-Sept-15 16:25:10

Polarisation and accusations of bullying. I see no bullying, just different views, so leave it be, jings

I don't think soontobe sees bullying either.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 04-Sept-15 16:26:13

Anniebach the fact is that it is documented in the bible that Jesus said that. (Lilies of the field thing?) and that is what soon has been asserting.

soontobe Fri 04-Sept-15 16:31:05

I think that any Christian would wrestle with things your husband witnessed Anniebach sad

I think that you and I are both fine to carry on?

One more question and then I think that is it.

Do you believe in God's supremacy?

Eloethan Fri 04-Sept-15 16:43:06

jingle Anniebach was, I think, responding to soon's point which was something along the lines of if you believe enough and pray hard enough your prayer will be answered. She felt quite strongly that such statements imply that those who experience tragedy were somehow lacking in faith. soon then went on to ask several personal questions, which anniebach replied to.

I recall in the past you have made some pretty acerbic comments about soon's posts so I don't understand why you feel it necessary to criticise others for expressing their strongly held views. soon has made some bold but questionable statements on this thread which were likely to disturb (in particular) religious Gransnetters and provoke a response.

Anniebach Fri 04-Sept-15 16:57:22

soon, I am fine. Please understand I accept your beliefs are strong as are mine, I decided a long time ago that looking for answers in the OT was not for me, too many contradictions . Not that choosing to try to live by the teachings of the NT is easier, I think it's harder

If I stole from someone who stole from me I could just comfort myself with - an eye for an eye etc, OT

Just what do you mean by God's supremacy ?

soontobe Fri 04-Sept-15 17:09:23

the state or condition of being superior to all others in authority, power or status.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 04-Sept-15 17:11:39

God seems to be completely powerless at the moment. Either that or very cruel.

Anniebach Fri 04-Sept-15 17:14:10

Yes soon, but never forgetting he gave is free will

Anniebach Fri 04-Sept-15 17:18:16

Jingle , I can't agree , all that we see happening is caused by man, mans greed, what would you want God to do? Start sending thunderbolts on some? He sent us Christ who taught us how to live, we choose to ignore these teachings

Eloethan Fri 04-Sept-15 17:48:48

Anniebach Although I agree with you that humankind is often solely responsible for the misery in the world, it is not responsible for all the tragedies that befall people.

As a non-religious person, I find it hard to understand how believers can square the notion of a loving God when that same God is responsible for the creation of a universe and all that exists in it, including tsunamis, earthquakes, famine, disease, etc. - which cause so much pain and misery to both humans and other animals.

Anniebach Fri 04-Sept-15 17:58:00

I understand why you say that Eloethan, I ask the same, but I accept that there is not an answer to every question and acceptance which is so difficult is part of faith . I remember during a very low point I got so angry and was having a rant at my priest , I yelled - tell me, why me ? , he replied - tell me why not you. I had no answer for him.

soontobe Fri 04-Sept-15 18:06:46

You believe in God's supremacy

Perhaps it was pain soon, he never said so we will never know . Not comfortable with your opinion that God could have taken the pain away but thought Paul needed it etc
In that part it also goes on to say that when we[Christians] are weak with whatever life throws at us, that is the times when we are strong, as Christ's power dwells with us.

Also, regarding God's supremacy
Romans 9 particularly verses 9-21 points it out rather well.
Gods choices are exercised throughout the Bible. Another place is Jeremiah chpt 18.

jinglbellsfrocks Fri 04-Sept-15 18:13:46

I'm sick of that argument anniebach. A thunderbolt or two would be good.